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CinnaSlim

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How to deal with someone trying to control your emotions by irritating you:

  1. Identify their intention - they want the satisfaction of seeing you upset, or they simply want your attention. I.E. they want a reaction.
  2. Don't give them what they want. :yeshrug:

Don't give those individuals your time or attention. Value your time. Don't give away your fukks for free. Success is the best revenge. Stay blessed while they stay bothered, etc, etc.

Obviously, they are looking for satisfaction in your distress and it just makes them look more miserable. Let them be miserable.
 

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Ive been alright. Just been trying to lose weight and create more self acceptance. I'm still in there yeah. But I'm not on discord much to be honest with school and work going on, I'm just wrapped up. I've been trying to be more of a social person. But that comfort zone is hard to leave tbh.
I totally understand. I know myself and I can deal with myself. Sometimes, it is a task to deal with others but you only get better at it if you get out there and get some practice.

Whenever, I see something helpful I look for you. So I will probably tag you with some links when I do.
 

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I totally understand. I know myself and I can deal with myself. Sometimes, it is a task to deal with others but you only get better at it if you get out there and get some practice.

Whenever, I see something helpful I look for you. So I will probably tag you with some links when I do.
That initial hello is awkward. As all hell. But I'm gonna keep trying.


And bless you beloved :hug::hug:
 

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powerful words tails :wow:
I'm going to get back to this with my $0.02 in due time.
@iBrowse

Hi thick brows. How was your vacation?
It was alright. I cannot complain. How's recovery going on for you?
 

SuperGrizzy

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All this beef is getting on my nerves. If you don't like someone just don't fukking talk to them. shyt, don't even acknowledge their existence, that's a great way to live.




@Chubbs, I need you to be the bigger person, king
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