Choking ayeFair enough.
Based on my experiences, - if I could put a ratio on them - I'd say that it was 80/20 me on being an initiator of anything.
Random slaps on her ass, choking, PDA and so on. I know they say be careful what you wish for because next thing I know, I'll be with a woman who is too much for me lmao.
Not a big deal in the grand scheme of things but its food for thought.