She doesn't deal with arguments as well as I do. I don't view an argument as two people being incompatible. I view them as a miscommunication. I also like to see how people argue because that's who they really are. She got mad I shut down after she insulted me for 20 minutes. I do not argue with women. I talk to them, and if they want to yell insults at me I'm going to take it and let it ride. I know women ride their emotions out and they will apologize for insulting me later. With that in mind, I get quiet and let them get it out.
She went bad on the wait staff and it upset me. I talked to her about it and she said I made her talk to them as she did because I upset her.
I don't like that. She called another black woman a retarded bytch at target yesterday. I don't like that behavior. I am highly respectful to anyone servicing me because their job is hella hard. They can be rude to me, but I will not be rude to them. I'm a moody dude, and she takes it too personally. 10/10 times my mood changes, but it's just me being sensitive and the beauty of being moody is my mood changes. It goes from bad to good as quickly as it goes from good to bad. I get over things quickly. Last night she complained about 2 weeks worth of issues.
I'm realizing she copes differently than me. She pretends she doesn't mind but she minds, she minds a lot. I'm the chill one and for this, to work I gotta be super chill. She has no chill, she pretends she does. The good outweighs the bad with her and I hope she feels the same way about me.
I behave inappropriately at times because it's funny!
When I'm in a bad mood I do something weird to make myself laugh. A genuine laugh always changes my mood.
I told her last night she needs to chill. I told all my roommates who are girls about her and they all said she's crazy as fukk and to run for my life, hahaha! They're right. She crazy as fukk. But I like her and I'm fukking with her.