That's why I always say, 'just because you can open your legs and get pregnant doesn't mean you should be a mother' or 'Just because you can fukk someone and get them pregnant doesn't mean you are fit to be a father'. So much dysfunction. So much trauma. So many cycles. Self hate. Influences. It's just all around a mess when you think of it.You're right.
Basically, both of these mfers need fukking help or some sort of counseling and advice. They got a kid to raise and the last thing they need is another kid to end up like them.