CinnaSlim
Queen of Swords
You are human, you aren't infallible. The point is to not worry about what 'they' think of you because you should know yourself.how do you stop taking things like this personal if it's constantly happening with different men
Worrying about what others think/do or trying to control them is tedious and leads to your dis-ease. Only person you can control is yourself and if you see you are getting the same results, with different variables, the only constant is you.
Einstein's definition of insanity: Doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result.
I hate working with hypotheticals because I like to get down to the truth and the root of the problem to fix it. You have to be honest with yourself about what is, so you can find a way to get what you want.