The Late Kevin Samuels On Tracee Ellis Ross.. Prophetic

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But this is BS tho because men do the approaching/proposing, and we all know that. If women are talking shyt but aren’t getting what they want then it’s clear they are full of it.

Same for men. If you don’t want the women in your age bracket and you are the kind of guy who has motion with women who are younger than you, do you! If them younger chicks ain’t with it then you’ll have to rethink things or step it up for the women you want.

A lot of ppl talk shyt. What are their results? That’s all that matters.

What i was talking about

Nobody says anything if a woman says she need a man making 100k, he has to be tall, he has to be dark or light, he has to be this he has to be that, etc etc

Now normal thinking women know the bytch is crazy for all these requirements but on a large scale nobody says nothing

But if a man particular a black man says he will not date a woman with a kid, he don’t want to date a big girl, he prefers dark or light woman, etc etc he get criticized and bashed on for his preference
 

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Some people never truly mature. Never learn the importance of compremise and cooperation. They want it all like a child does, and will come up with any rationalization on why they deserve it all and can't be realistic with their standards. The good part about this is that none of us, with realistic standards, have to deal with them. We can see the problem, and pass it right on by.

Wasting your time trying to change the minds of such people keeps you from instead seeking out better people for relationships. So listen, observe, and be perceptive. Know who to give your time to, and whom are only worth a quick roll in the hay with at best. Suit up so you don't become connected to that person who is unworthy of a real relationship, because you made a child with that person. If you can't find someone worthy of a real relationship where you are, then seek them out elsewhere.
 

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What i was talking about

Nobody says anything if a woman says she need a man making 100k, he has to be tall, he has to be dark or light, he has to be this he has to be that, etc etc

Now normal thinking women know the bytch is crazy for all these requirements but on a large scale nobody says nothing

But if a man particular a black man says he will not date a woman with a kid, he don’t want to date a big girl, he prefers dark or light woman, etc etc he get criticized and bashed on for his preference
This is a false assertion too. You can find a bunch of men and women punching holes in women's demands for those attributes online, the same place where you see them making those demands you listed.
 

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“Full and robust life” yet still on there begging (gotta listen to what she saying) and pleading for the men she WANTS to want her….


Listen sis, life is about compromise. We ALL have to do it in some way, shape, or form. Your money, status or fame does not exempt you.

So for all that talk about the life she leads, she’s still missing something. And she can’t get it from flings and “younger men” bc they not satisfying her the way she wants (not sexually but every other way) bc if they were, she wouldn’t be on Sister Obama’s podcast complaining about it.


Hopefully she’ll find what she’s searching for, or allows herself to compromise to get what she wants. Young guys are fun, but what about after yall out the bedroom? What is there to talk about? Fulfill? The old CEO may not be able to keep up with her sexually, but can give her the mental and emotional support she looking for. She ain’t 20-30 no more, there’s concessions she gotta make at this point
Young guys to her could be mid to upper 40’s. They have all the life’s experience plus the energy to dig her bottom out.

If I were 40 and looking for a potential life partner, would I consider a 45-55 year old?
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It not even about the age really. I love women and I love their minds. I can fall in love with an older woman. The issue would be vitality. We are on this earth for a short amount of time. Life can be a beautiful journey, but I’d rather have a 30-35 year old with her shyt together than a 45-50 year old how has it all plus time.

I think a lot of men feel the same. Nothing wrong with that. It’s just one of life’s facts. She’s been licking coochie, getting dug out for 40+ years, and having fun. Not that death is creeping up on her, life feels lonely. As she stated, there’s no guarantee she would have found the perfect person.

You said it perfect though. Life is about compromise. Some people rather not, hence going through life single. Being single for many is great all around until you go to bed. Then again some people love being in a relationship but rather not live together. It’s hard finding that match for the type of lifestyle you want to live.
 

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I'm 33 and have dealt with a few older women since my 20's

They aren't compatible with men that have their shyt together at any age


They think they know everything and want control, but if a guy isn't looking for a mother or isn't a bum, it's not going to work out

Had a 43 year old that I used to see in my 20's after she sold me my first house

We went on a trip once and she bought me a shirt that I didn't like (I don't like women trying to dress me and the shirt was trash). She threw a small fit, said some slick shyt and apologized, but I read her the riot act in the car all the way back to the hotel and she started crying

I was disturbed and disgusted because she reverted to acting like an 18 year old brat

Mentally, that's where alot of them are despite having everything else working for them


Last I saw, she was dating some super young boy that's living with her

They want a man but their ego is going to have to take an L if they want a real one, but alot of them realize it too late in the game
one of the older chicks i used to mess around with in my 20s when she was early 40s...let a whole nikka move into her big ass house and everything..a nikka thats still trying to get a rap career to pop off..i know she pays for everything that nikka does..she def resigned to her fate....its a shame her now college aged daughter is seeing that though
 

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Some people never truly mature. Never learn the importance of compremise and cooperatio

Right

Alot of people push the line, "I want a partner"

There has to be a mutual respect for a fruitful partnership to work

Outside of gender wars, men generally seem to extend a more social grace to women that doesn't get returned

Even my friends in good marriages and long term relationships complain about the lack of respect at times

Ultimately, their relationships work long term because when one gets out of pocket, they actually communicate and have the self-awareness to see their fault

That's damn near impossible to do with someone who is used to having their way in life and relationships
 

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Young guys to her could be mid to upper 40’s. They have all the life’s experience plus the energy to dig her bottom out.

If I were 40 and looking for a potential life partner, would I consider a 45-55 year old?
:gucci:
It not even about the age really. I love women and I love their minds. I can fall in love with an older woman. The issue would be vitality. We are on this earth for a short amount of time. Life can be a beautiful journey, but I’d rather have a 30-35 year old with her shyt together than a 45-50 year old how has it all plus time.

I think a lot of men feel the same. Nothing wrong with that. It’s just one of life’s facts. She’s been licking coochie, getting dug out for 40+ years, and having fun. Not that death is creeping up on her, life feels lonely. As she stated, there’s no guarantee she would have found the perfect person.

You said it perfect though. Life is about compromise. Some people rather not, hence going through life single. Being single for many is great all around until you go to bed. Then again some people love being in a relationship but rather not live together. It’s hard finding that match for the type of lifestyle you want to live.
This is my thoughts too. I love the conversations I have with older folks/older women, like they're legit energizing to me and I'm generally known to be introverted. Not all of them, in fact the majority come off mature and well-adjusted. Maybe I'm just good at picking them.

But I'm getting up there myself and would like to have a family, getting with someone 5-10 years older ain't gonna work in that regard. I'm honestly looking 5-10 years younger because of that vitality issue.
 
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