The Late Kevin Samuels On Tracee Ellis Ross.. Prophetic

[SpikeLee Cumbersmith]

As qn older Brotha, conversations like this leave a lot out. Kevin is right to a point. There’s the BM in my group who are marriage addicts, but there are the BM who think similar to Tracie.
We have our own hobbies that we will not compromise , and you realize that time is important. There’s a point in everyone's life where it's not about compromise but coexistence. Tracie hasn't gotten there yet, so she talks about power. She still has a journey to to accomplish.

 

[Chrishaune]

honestly though men need to get with the program too. its only harder as we get older to find solid women.

yea yea...some younger women like dudes ten years older than them but for the most part women wanna date men aged within a few years of them and even when they dont, the generational differences can make them not worth dating. i know for one i dont wanna date no chick addicted to tik tok

Older men do not care past a certain age.
They know it's over with finding a wife most likely.
They don't care to go through the process of finding one.

 

[TEH]

The godfather didn’t miss.

 

[Ahadi]

It’s interesting in comparison to her siblings (Evan, etc) she’s the single one.

She just wants to trick and do fetishes / lesbian shyt & the guys she wants won’t put up with that, but the younger dudes who are thirsty will lol

 

[TEH]

was that michelle obama or am I trippin lol
i just got laser eye surgery so i must be trippin right

Michelle is acting like early Oprah with these bullshyt podcasts. Might have midget wrestling next month.

 

[Ohene]

Older men do not care past a certain age.
They know it's over with finding a wife most likely.
They don't care to go through the process of finding one.

lol i am almost there myself and I'm only 33

 

[Apollo Creed]

When it comes to dating in this era

Women can have options .. men have to settle

U remember when tyrese mom in baby boy said for 50th birthday she got gangbang , nobody said shyt , that she was a hoe or nasty..


All of a sudden men start talking about passport bros hitting out the country, here come US women calling dudes lames and u are wack because u have options to do so

Because the only value a black man has to the world is as a slave. Black Male Autonomy is a revolutionary act

 

[Ohene]

U remember when tyrese mom in baby boy said for 50th birthday she got gangbang , nobody said shyt , that she was a hoe or nasty..

got damn...i dont remember that shyt lol

 

[Ohene]

When it comes to dating in this era

Women can have options .. men have to settle

U remember when tyrese mom in baby boy said for 50th birthday she got gangbang , nobody said shyt , that she was a hoe or nasty..


All of a sudden men start talking about passport bros hitting out the country, here come US women calling dudes lames and u are wack because u have options to do so

hard to look at North American women the same when you travel abroad

sure, women abroad might expect you to take care of a lot of shyt financially, but at least you get some respect and warmth in exchange for that. women out here will act like theyre doing you the favor, when youre the one doing most of the work in the bedroom and in the relationship. and we men have been indoctrinated to think that's okay.

It's fukked up

 

[Chrishaune]

Because the only value a black man has to the world is as a slave. Black Male Autonomy is a revolutionary act

You see it in their eyes everyday.

 

[Tetris v2.0]

Crazy how much the world changed since Kevin

I was never really a fan but what we ended up getting instead of him was so much worse

 

[Apollo Creed]

Crazy how much the world changed since Kevin

I was never really a fan but what we ended up getting instead of him was so much worse

Lotta cats felt that the celebration of his death was confirmation shyt os over. Cause KS was someone who actually cared about these folks lol

 

[Marc Spector]

I dont know how content like KS persists in the midst of a lonely crisis for young men.

On second thought, the lonely crisis explains everything.

 

[TooLazyToMakeUp1]

I'm 33 and have dealt with a few older women since my 20's

They aren't compatible with men that have their shyt together at any age


They think they know everything and want control, but if a guy isn't looking for a mother or isn't a bum, it's not going to work out

Had a 43 year old that I used to see in my 20's after she sold me my first house

We went on a trip once and she bought me a shirt that I didn't like (I don't like women trying to dress me and the shirt was trash). She threw a small fit, said some slick shyt and apologized, but I read her the riot act in the car all the way back to the hotel and she started crying

I was disturbed and disgusted because she reverted to acting like an 18 year old brat

Mentally, that's where alot of them are despite having everything else working for them


Last I saw, she was dating some super young boy that's living with her

They want a man but their ego is going to have to take an L if they want a real one, but alot of them realize it too late in the game

 

[Apollo Creed]

You see it in their eyes everyday.

I think the thing that really causes the delusion is the only people who should love them seems them in the same lens as outsiders which is as a slave. Where you see two sides of a spectrum where even those who love us still see us as slaves thus their love is protecting/hiding is from the master which indirectly makes us ill prepared for the world and being able to compete. Neither side has belief in the competence of Black Males actually being Men.

This is why the world degenderizes us and we are spoken of as beast of labor whether its emotional, physical productivity or sexually.