The last time i had sex was 2008 AMA

[Bledswole]

Ikr

You fap?

 

[Clay Puppington]

snip

The reason I ask about your friends is because I'm tryna figure out if you went through something similar to me
If you were a shy dude until 21-22 like me then your peoples and them see you and probably will continue to see you as that shy guy since you've been that for so long
Do you go out with them and shyt? How is it when y'all go out? Do y'all run down, talk to shorties etc.

 

[Michael's Black Son]

You’re not missing out on anything.

Basically

 

[skeetsinternal]

 

[str8cashhomie87]

Commit to being the best version of yourself. Join toastmasters to get practice speaking and controlling your voice. Join a gym. You in Chicago, learn to dance bachata/salsa at a local dance studio. There will be women of every race in there. Pick up a book on body language.

This is just a start OP but you gotta commit to wanting a better life. Its up to you.

 

[dora_da_destroyer]

You hit it right on the head

then get yourself in order and find a girl. every dude aint built for running thru hoes, so skip that advice from the brehs who are saying it. plenty of people are still relatively fresh/inexperienced in their early 20's.

if you don't like the way you look, go work on that for awhile, start building your confidence.

try the online thing or cold approach, learn how to deal with striking out and not letting it get you down. you can eventually find you a young 19-23 shy inexperienced thing who'd appreciate monogamy, might be down for you, yall can experiment and grow together.

if you really just don't care about sex, then cool. but if it's something you feel you're missing, take the steps necessary to get it

 

[Coerezmoney2212]

You fap?

Yea

 

[Coerezmoney2212]

Skeet




help

 

[Coerezmoney2212]

The ' I ask about your friends is because I'm tryna figure out if you went through something similar to me
If you were a shy dude until 21-22 like me then your peoples and them see you and probably will continue to see you as that shy guy since you've been that for so long
Do you go out with them and shyt? How is it when y'all go out? Do y'all run down, talk to shorties etc.

Yea I went through that. But now since I'm older they see me as the lAidback/cool/smooth type. We kick it from time to time due to work. And yea. We do. I'm the single one out the group tho

 

[Coerezmoney2212]

Commit to being the best version of yourself. Join toastmasters to get practice speaking and controlling your voice. Join a gym. You in Chicago, learn to dance bachata/salsa at a local dance studio. There will be women of every race in there. Pick up a book on body language.

This is just a start OP but you gotta commit to wanting a better life. Its up to you.

What's toastmasters

 

[dora_da_destroyer]

Yea I went through that. But now since I'm older they see me as the lAidback/cool/smooth type. We kick it from time to time due to work. And yea. We do. I'm the single one out the group tho

sorry, haven't read the whole thread, but how do women respond to you? do you talk to chicks? you got god conversation or you one of those "WYD" nikkas? if you're the single one, your boys don't ever try to hook you up with one of their girl's girls? if they've tried, what happened? why didn't it work?

 

[Jimmy from Linkedin]

Yea

no fap

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

I'd kill myself

 

[skeetsinternal]

Skeet




help

Cot damn my nikka.. Which state you in?

 

[str8cashhomie87]

What's toastmasters

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