The key to happiness is not giving a f*ck.

[*L*E*G*A*C*Y*]

You're not doing it right if you expect a win or a favorable outcome all the time. I think OP meant being content with your "self " and your decisions and let the chips fall where they may.

Exactly! Life isn't fair and isn't going be in ones favor all the time. Nor should anybody expect to get their way all or even some of the time. So just do you and f*ck the haters. Just work on yourself, work hard, and things will work out in your favor.

 

[*L*E*G*A*C*Y*]

I don't know breh. Dudes talking about how they don't give fukk all the time is a pet peeve of mine.

It just reeks of hormonal teenager.

I'm 29.

Let me tell you a story ShaneTheRogue.

Once upon a time, I used to let people who insulted me on message boards get the better of me. I would write all sorts of nasty comments, use all of the profane words in the English language, and even throw in a threat or two. Until I realized that getting my blood pressure up over words someone that I'll more than likely never meet and that I don't know was not only unhealthy, but just dumb. Cause more than likely, once people would take a chance to talk to me and get to know, they would realize that's just one of many facets of my personality.

So, I'll just say this to you. I can understand where you're coming from and you're entitled to your opinion of me based on my post. That doesn't mean anything other than that cause I know who I am at the end of the day. I'll just agree to disagree with you and call it a day.

 

[nineteeneightysix]

I think people get the idea of "not giving a f*ck" twisted.
Not giving a f*ck is not about living a restless lifestyle. Not giving a f*ck is all about just that. I don't give a f*ck because I'm not trying to seek the approval of others. I'm living for myself and not living for other people. I don't care what people think about me cause they average person doesn't even want to take the time out to get to know somebody to find out otherwise. I'm not going to and refuse to have someone else occupy space in my head and get the better of me because I'm giving them credence to let their opinions of me get the better of me. Why? Cause deep down inside I just know that whatever people perceive me as or think of me from my posts, my blog, my art, my music, what I do for fun, who I date, or how dress/carry myself it's always going to be wrong in someway. Not giving a f*ck is freedom. I don't care about this society or how it views me cause I'm always going to be a champ at the end of the day cause while other people are caught up trying to please others, I'm just operating off of my own self-interests that benefit me.
I don't give a f*ck if you like me or not. If you like me, cool. If not...f*ck you, I don't care. Not everyone's going to like me so why should I try to me Mr. Likeable and be fake. I'd rather be me and be real, cause that's all I'll ever be; me.
TL:DR; I don't give a f*ck.

How far do you take it though...? I am asking because I adopted the "not giving a f+ck" attitude as a defence mechanism when I was college and, in hind sight, I think I had a mental breakdown...

But I have become so extremely self-centred that I can't function in a social setting with other people, for long periods of time...I have lost touch with most of my family and friends, not because I have angry feelings towards them, but because I am just apathetic, and only care about what's happening in my life...

I don't feel any emotional attachment to anybody...I only keep relationships that meet my needs, basically, if you are not helping me get rich or giving me sex, then I have no need for you in life...

But at the same time I have developed a "mask" that helps me blend into society and seem "normal"...

I have pretty much turned into a socio-path...I am not a full blown socio-path because I don't have intent to harm people, but lately I have been asking myself, "if I could get away with a killing a former friend who robbed me of almost $10000, would I do it?" And my answer is "yes"...

Without my fear of the legal system, I pretty much think myself capable of anything depending on the situation and the potential benefits of any given action...

I wish I could go back to being fully "normal"...That "I don't give a f+ck" mentality is NOT healthy...If you really mean it, you will end up alone...

I hardly ever feel an emotional need or duty to call family and friends and check on their well being, I don't think I can ever love anybody other than myself, because I don't trust other people...

It's better to have people around you...And if you really have that "I don't give f+ck" attitude, you will end up a lonely socio-path...That attitude only works in TV Shows and the Movies...

 

[*L*E*G*A*C*Y*]

How far do you take it though...? I am asking because I adopted the "not giving a f+ck" attitude as a defence mechanism when I was college and, in hind sight, I think I had a mental breakdown...

But I have become so extremely self-centred that I can't function in a social setting with other people, for long periods of time...I have lost touch with most of my family and friends, not because I have angry feelings towards them, but because I am just apathetic, and only care about what's happening in my life...

I don't feel any emotional attachment to anybody...I only keep relationships that meet my needs, basically, if you are not helping me get rich or giving me sex, then I have no need for you in life...

But at the same time I have developed a "mask" that helps me blend into society and seem "normal"...

I have pretty much turned into a socio-path...I am not a full blown socio-path because I don't have intent to harm people, but lately I have been asking myself, "if I could get away with a killing a former friend who robbed me of almost $10000, would I do it?" And my answer is "yes"...

Without my fear of the legal system, I pretty much think myself capable of anything depending on the situation and the potential benefits of any given action...

I wish I could go back to being fully "normal"...That "I don't give a f+ck" mentality is NOT healthy...If you really mean it, you will end up alone...

I hardly ever feel an emotional need or duty to call family and friends and check on their well being, I don't think I can ever love anybody other than myself, because I don't trust other people...

It's better to have people around you...And if you really have that "I don't give f+ck" attitude, you will end up a lonely socio-path...That attitude only works in TV Shows and the Movies...

I'll be dead honest. I'm always there for people when they can depend on me. I'm always willing to lend a helping hand. I'm always willing to offer advice to someone. I open doors for men, women, and children. I consider myself a family man cause I'm always helping out my family. I would not consider myself a sociopath at all...cause I'm just too nice and friendly. I can't help it, that's just me. Anti-social at times, yes. Wanting to be alone for moments of self-reflection where I can gain something of value, yes? Somewhat introverted, yes? Sociopathic or psychopathic, no. But I wouldn't consider myself sane nor crazy. I'm never was considered "normal" by this society's flawed standards and it would just be boring to not go crazy once in a while. I honestly think tht my moments of brilliance andd excellence comes from my eccentric and non-conventional ways of thinking and seeing the world.

Maybe, I'm just like this because I'm just so used to having people not even want to entertain me in conversation or want to get to know me...I had to get to know me and recognize what makes me great before I could truly make the impact I wanted to not even in my own life...but in the world at large.

Then, I realized what I meant to people and who I was to them. And what makes me an individual and a successful one is...not giving a fukk and doing me. Being me. Expressing myself and following the things I like. When one is happy with themselves, others will be drawn to it and will find that greatness within themselves.

 

[nineteeneightysix]

When I received my license to practice as a physiotherapist, I didn't even tell my family...My brother found out a year later when I

Most people who truly don't give a fukk have mental issues. ex. psychopaths, sociopaths.

I think I am socio-path...

I go to work and school, and in both settings people think I am a "great guy," but they don't even know that I don't call my mother, not even on her birthday or mother's day, I have a brother in England, and I have not spoken to him in 5 years, I have a brother somewhere in Canada (where I live) and I don't really care about where he is, what is doing and with who he is doing it...My attitude is "that his life and if it makes him happy, so be it, and if he wanted me to know about it, he will tell me."

I can't be a full blown socio-path, because I realize that the way I am right now can't be the best way to be...You have to be strong all the time, and that is very stressful, even if you are not aware of it...

I am abnormally independent...To the point that I can never have a meaningful relationship with anybody else...I live life like if I am in a video game, and the only life that actually matters is my own life, everybody else is either just a prop or a stepping stone who can help me get to the top, or an obstacle trying to stop me from getting to the top...

With every year that passes, I become more comfortable with this way of thinking, and I become more aware of the various masks that put on when I am interacting with people...

 

[ShaneTheRogue]

I'm 29.

Let me tell you a story ShaneTheRogue.

Once upon a time, I used to let people who insulted me on message boards get the better of me. I would write all sorts of nasty comments, use all of the profane words in the English language, and even throw in a threat or two. Until I realized that getting my blood pressure up over words someone that I'll more than likely never meet and that I don't know was not only unhealthy, but just dumb. Cause more than likely, once people would take a chance to talk to me and get to know, they would realize that's just one of many facets of my personality.

So, I'll just say this to you. I can understand where you're coming from and you're entitled to your opinion of me based on my post. That doesn't mean anything other than that cause I know who I am at the end of the day. I'll just agree to disagree with you and call it a day.

I wasn't implying that you were a hormonal teenager. I was just explaining where my dislike for people talking about "not giving a fukk" comes from. I associate the sentiment with hormonal teenagers.

I know how old you are from another thread where you said you were almost thirty. I believe it was the one about afro-punk? Anyway, for what it's worth I think you're a pretty good poster. I just so happen to disagree with this particular philosophy.

I'd apologize for the confusion.... but I'd doubt you'd give a fukk.

 

[ShaneTheRogue]

When I received my license to practice as a physiotherapist, I didn't even tell my family...My brother found out a year later when I

I think I am socio-path...

I go to work and school, and in both settings people think I am a "great guy," but they don't even know that I don't call my mother, not even on her birthday or mother's day, I have a brother in England, and I have not spoken to him in 5 years, I have a brother somewhere in Canada (where I live) and I don't really care about where he is, what is doing and with who he is doing it...My attitude is "that his life and if it makes him happy, so be it, and if he wanted me to know about it, he will tell me."

I can't be a full blown socio-path, because I realize that the way I am right now can't be the best way to be...You have to be strong all the time, and that is very stressful, even if you are not aware of it...

I am abnormally independent...To the point that I can never have a meaningful relationship with anybody else...I live life like if I am in a video game, and the only life that actually matters is my own life, everybody else is either just a prop or a stepping stone who can help me get to the top, or an obstacle trying to stop me from getting to the top...

With every year that passes, I become more comfortable with this way of thinking, and I become more aware of the various masks that put on when I am interacting with people...

Yeah, man if you can afford it professional help may help you out. That is if you want to be helped. As long as you're not skinning people alive I guess.

 

[The_King_of_Everything]

I think people get the idea of "not giving a f*ck" twisted.

Not giving a f*ck is not about living a reckless lifestyle. Not giving a f*ck is all about just that. I don't give a f*ck because I'm not trying to seek the approval of others. I'm living for myself and not living for other people. I don't care what people think about me cause they average person doesn't even want to take the time out to get to know somebody to find out otherwise. I'm not going to and refuse to have someone else occupy space in my head and get the better of me because I'm giving them credence to let their opinions of me get the better of me. Why? Cause deep down inside I just know that whatever people perceive me as or think of me from my posts, my blog, my art, my music, what I do for fun, who I date, or how dress/carry myself it's always going to be wrong in someway. Not giving a f*ck is freedom. I don't care about this society or how it views me cause I'm always going to be a champ at the end of the day cause while other people are caught up trying to please others, I'm just operating off of my own self-interests that benefit me.

I don't give a f*ck if you like me or not. If you like me, cool. If not...f*ck you, I don't care. Not everyone's going to like me so why should I try to me Mr. Likeable and be fake. I'd rather be me and be real, cause that's all I'll ever be; me.

TL:DR; I don't give a f*ck.

You are a god

 

[yo moms]

How far do you take it though...? I am asking because I adopted the "not giving a f+ck" attitude as a defence mechanism when I was college and, in hind sight, I think I had a mental breakdown...

But I have become so extremely self-centred that I can't function in a social setting with other people, for long periods of time...I have lost touch with most of my family and friends, not because I have angry feelings towards them, but because I am just apathetic, and only care about what's happening in my life...

I don't feel any emotional attachment to anybody...I only keep relationships that meet my needs, basically, if you are not helping me get rich or giving me sex, then I have no need for you in life...

But at the same time I have developed a "mask" that helps me blend into society and seem "normal"...

I have pretty much turned into a socio-path...I am not a full blown socio-path because I don't have intent to harm people, but lately I have been asking myself, "if I could get away with a killing a former friend who robbed me of almost $10000, would I do it?" And my answer is "yes"...

Without my fear of the legal system, I pretty much think myself capable of anything depending on the situation and the potential benefits of any given action...

I wish I could go back to being fully "normal"...That "I don't give a f+ck" mentality is NOT healthy...If you really mean it, you will end up alone...

I hardly ever feel an emotional need or duty to call family and friends and check on their well being, I don't think I can ever love anybody other than myself, because I don't trust other people...

It's better to have people around you...And if you really have that "I don't give f+ck" attitude, you will end up a lonely socio-path...That attitude only works in TV Shows and the Movies...

I think you are me.

 

[Mr. Somebody]

I think people get the idea of "not giving a f*ck" twisted.

Not giving a f*ck is not about living a reckless lifestyle. Not giving a f*ck is all about just that. I don't give a f*ck because I'm not trying to seek the approval of others. I'm living for myself and not living for other people. I don't care what people think about me cause they average person doesn't even want to take the time out to get to know somebody to find out otherwise. I'm not going to and refuse to have someone else occupy space in my head and get the better of me because I'm giving them credence to let their opinions of me get the better of me. Why? Cause deep down inside I just know that whatever people perceive me as or think of me from my posts, my blog, my art, my music, what I do for fun, who I date, or how dress/carry myself it's always going to be wrong in someway. Not giving a f*ck is freedom. I don't care about this society or how it views me cause I'm always going to be a champ at the end of the day cause while other people are caught up trying to please others, I'm just operating off of my own self-interests that benefit me.

I don't give a f*ck if you like me or not. If you like me, cool. If not...f*ck you, I don't care. Not everyone's going to like me so why should I try to me Mr. Likeable and be fake. I'd rather be me and be real, cause that's all I'll ever be; me.

TL:DR; I don't give a f*ck.

WRONG!

The key is actually giving a F, friend because when you care about friends, which requires work, you'll find that hard work, pays, friend. How does caring pay out. When you help someone often times they repay you in some way. Especially if its someone you know. Having a good track record with friends and other individuals not only strengthens the human spirit but it also causes people to look out for you as a friend which can be a great safety net for an individual in a variety of complex/simplistic situations, friend.

 

[beezy]

lets keep it 3hunna. i wish i could say all that, but at the end of the day, idk how. i can't. i tell myself "dont give a fukk; stop giving a fukk" and im trying, but its not happening how can i convince myself? how can i be that guy?

 

[Bender Rodriguez]

When I received my license to practice as a physiotherapist, I didn't even tell my family...My brother found out a year later when I

I think I am socio-path...

I go to work and school, and in both settings people think I am a "great guy," but they don't even know that I don't call my mother, not even on her birthday or mother's day, I have a brother in England, and I have not spoken to him in 5 years, I have a brother somewhere in Canada (where I live) and I don't really care about where he is, what is doing and with who he is doing it...My attitude is "that his life and if it makes him happy, so be it, and if he wanted me to know about it, he will tell me."

I can't be a full blown socio-path, because I realize that the way I am right now can't be the best way to be...You have to be strong all the time, and that is very stressful, even if you are not aware of it...

I am abnormally independent...To the point that I can never have a meaningful relationship with anybody else...I live life like if I am in a video game, and the only life that actually matters is my own life, everybody else is either just a prop or a stepping stone who can help me get to the top, or an obstacle trying to stop me from getting to the top...

With every year that passes, I become more comfortable with this way of thinking, and I become more aware of the various masks that put on when I am interacting with people...

I don't think its as bad as you say, cause im pretty much the same. In my psychology class, the teacher was talking about how sociopaths and ceos have the same brain activity as they have no regard on anyone just to get what they want, its scary and crazy at the same time to think that. More then once i've heard nothings wrong, but i take it more like the joker in the dark knight of im just ahead of curve.

 

[Huellz Santana]

if you didn't give a fukk you wouldn't feel the need to broadcast it in this thread. ​

 

[PhonZhi]

all i know is that when i started to "not give a fukk" my puzzy rate went up. i used to be that guy scared/intimidated of approaching women. but after changing my whole mindset to just stop caring the intimidation factor went out the window.

 

[ProfessionallyTrill]

Agree w/ OP.

Sometimes you gotta have a life epiphany to understand