The Feminine Black Woman:Dating A Man With Financial Problems

[VICVALLIN]

the only thing that kills me about these type of things is that women as always feel the need to jump to the extreme end of the spectrum, talking about unemployed men. being a blue collar worker doesn't have to equate to working at burger king for 20k a year. another thing that really pisses me off is both genders' emphasis on the superficial and the material in choosing a mate and their dismay when shyt falls apart. how about you start putting an emphasis on character?! if you are a woman making high 5 or 6 figures and you find a good man that's making 40k plus or so, then whats the problem?? is he a good person?? is he paying his own bills, living in his own home, has his own mode of transportation?? do women really not understand that in 2013 with rising costs of living that it reeks of selfishness that you believe that you shouldn't shoulder some of the load, especially if you are making comparable or more money?? you're an adult, why should another adult be responsible for you?? relationships are partnerships, not server/servant. i've been married 5 years and my wife and i take care of each other, emotionally, financially, etc. also, i quit taking that article seriously when i kept reading dept instead of debt.

 

[kevm3]

the only thing that kills me about these type of things is that women as always feel the need to jump to the extreme end of the spectrum, talking about unemployed men. being a blue collar worker doesn't have to equate to working at burger king for 20k a year. another thing that really pisses me off is both genders' emphasis on the superficial and the material in choosing a mate and their dismay when shyt falls apart. how about you start putting an emphasis on character?! if you are a woman making high 5 or 6 figures and you find a good man that's making 40k plus or so, then whats the problem?? is he a good person?? is he paying his own bills, living in his own home, has his own mode of transportation?? do women really not understand that in 2013 with rising costs of living that it reeks of selfishness that you believe that you shouldn't shoulder some of the load, especially if you are making comparable or more money?? you're an adult, why should another adult be responsible for you?? relationships are partnerships, not server/servant. i've been married 5 years and my wife and i take care of each other, emotionally, financially, etc. also, i quit taking that article seriously when i kept reading dept instead of debt.

I feel you on that. Women need to ultimately be worried about character. I feel her from the standpoint that she wants a man who is financially sound because she is thinking about her future, but character in a man is ultimately what matters.

 

[MikeBrownsJob]

She recently got married. One of the commentators is

Christelyn D. Karazin14 November 2013 18:22
That's wonderful! Yes, the LIE that black women are unlovable and unmarriageable is designed to kill our souls.

Same Christelyn who runs Beyond Black and White

These are your female versions of Tommy Somotayor.

 

[Dirty_Jerz]

read it all and it has its good and bad points, i just wonder if since she is so much wanting "traditional" man/woman roles in a relationship does she not mind playing that role to the fullest? or is she trying to have cake and eat it too

 

[Uncle Trill]

Take opinions in articles from bitter black women as factual texts brehrettes

 

[Stuntone]

"Black Women have more options then ever and can marry however we want"

I thought men did the marrying? And I thought Black Women were the last people to get married

 

[kermit da hustla]

Now we all know that the chances of a real zoo keeper dating a beautiful woman, let alone two is very, very slim

 

[☑︎#VoteDemocrat]

Why can't we as a people write about shyt beyond amateur dating articles?

 

[kurt]

1st Page

 

[☑︎#VoteDemocrat]

What does SHE do for a living though?

 

[☑︎#VoteDemocrat]

This woman's examples include a fukking picture of naomi campbell and her billionaire boyfriend

are you fukking kidding me?

 

[Chris.B]

she will end up in my church and complain about no good men around anymore in 10 years with a b*stard attached

 

[☑︎#VoteDemocrat]

read it all and it has its good and bad points, i just wonder if since she is so much wanting "traditional" man/woman roles in a relationship does she not mind playing that role to the fullest? or is she trying to have cake and eat it too

Theres something about her writing style that makes me want to just write her off as a try-hard.

I can't put my finger on it...

 

[Scientific Playa]

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Still in the honeymoon phase: Zoe Saldana's husband Marco Perego gives the star a loving kiss as they enjoy a date night at Beyonce's concert

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbi...date-night-Beyonce-concert.html#ixzz2mVb0Z7gl

 

[Chris.B]

isn't this zoe chick Dominican? I'm not shocked she is with a white dude.