MurderSheWrote They didn't change. I asked for this on page one.
Nope, you've been switching up and playing the "what I meant" rules since you came in here.
I didn't see any stereotypes. I saw them stating the FACTS when ASKED their opinion on the subject of black women and interracial dating.
Of course you don't see any stereotypes in there LOL. why would you as a black woman advocating for interracial dating?
They didn't volunteer an opinion. Instead they were asked their opinion (the main difference between them and back men). When a black woman dates/marries out she doesn't typically proclaim to the world, "I got myself a white man and black men ain't shyt."
Wrong, I've already proven it's the opposite (check the
8 reasons to date a White Man link).. They loudly, and confidently proclaim 'n!ggaz aint shyt' through a variety of media sources in books, TV shows, movies, talk shows etc etc...they attempt to
intellectualize their BS as a legitimate gripe all in the effort because they
can't simply admit that they want straight haired babies with light skin as a way upgrade themselves in society. If you listen these women, they sound like Neo Nazis when they open up about it.
Also none of these women bashed black men in their comments. Stating that alot of black men are dead, date outside their race and are in prison is not a stereotype. It is a fact. If black men want to tell themselves that these REAL issues don't play a part in why SOME black women are looking outside the race, they are in serious denial.
What are you talking about??? Of course they bashed them. This is the BS that I'm referring to when some of you sound like the
Der Fuhrer himself.
You call it a "fact"
however, if a black man stood up and said that he preferred to date women of other races, and that he advocates OTHER black men to do the same because there are a
disproportionate number of
black women on welfare, with children out of wedlock with different daddies, STDs and are overweight....yall would hardly sympathasize with him.
Heck yall have
seizures and
conniptions when a brotha tells you to calm that
lil attitude down. LOL. I can hardly imagine the atomic outrage and shyt storm that would cause.
No, let's just look at FAMOUS black women because these are the folks who have the power to shape perceptions...just as FAMOUS black men do.
People are sheep. We are more likely to follow FAMOUS folks than non-famous folks.
I would argue that in the larger scheme of things all the non-famous people you point to are insignificant compared to FAMOUS black men and women.
NO...let's talk about the
media. Because these "famous" celebrities are
agents of the media. The media "shapes perceptions"...and you do not have to be "famous" to be in the media to do that.
Now when these black women sit up on stage "intellectualizing" their BS on Oprah, Tyra and whatever other black female syndicated show (past or present) about how black men supposedly have color issues, employment problems, fidelity problems, "down low" problems and whatever else; it
provides and
legitimizes talking points as a frame of reference for discussion. They did JUST that back in 2009 on ABC when they had a panel of [unknown] black women on stage reporting their "dating woes" of available black male on their supposed "level."
Did she bash black men in her comments? Nope! That's what I meant by "more pride and honor."
Of course she did lol...
We don't throw the race under the bus just big up another race. We are capable of gushing over non-black men WITHOUT throwing black men under the bus. For whatever reason black men seem incapable of doing the same.
Nonsense. I've already proven it. Yall stand up their and run down the same tired laundry list of black male problems as a reason to use your teeth to scrape the
deadskin off the end of the white man's penis. LOL.
Yall can never just do it, or be honest with yourselves.
You
can't even begin to compare the number of black women bashing black men in an effort to advocate that more black women date interracial. Like I said, there are books, movies, talk shows, and an endless amount of websites who
tutor black women into this line of thinking.
DO I really need to start
shoveling up websites and dumping them on your plate here???
If anything, black men are the
quietest about it. They interracially date and marry at 3x the rate and there is
nary a peep or ounce of support for them doing so, and you certainly do not see the ones that do
recruiting other black men to do so. They do it and lay low.
Unless you count the antics of Slim Jizz or whatever his name is...black men, are absolutely without a doubt the quietest about it between the two.
I don't have anything against interracial dating. My beef is with people who throw the race under the bus while doing it.
Neither do I. But hey what I dislike more is the
hypocrisy of it all. Like I stated before, you're quick to call it a "fact" when black women criticize black men, but in the
very same breath call it "throwing under the bus" when a black man says something about it.
And clearly your definition of "pride" is different from mine. Your definition is based on some outdated black nationalist "nothing but the brothers" bullshyt.
Um no, I certainly have pride and I am DEFINITELY not on some "nothin but the sisters" talk LOL. I'm just sitting here scratching my head, trying to figure out how black women have "more pride" wearing hat hair, colored contacts,
bathed in skin lighting cremes and
gushing over the idea of being the princess of an imperialist empire lol.
IF some n!gga said that ish....he would have been called a "color struck" negro, who
hates his black momma who would have been hanged from the
highest tree 50 years ago.
You never hear that shyt about black women who say that stuff. All you have are a bunch of black women applauding,
smacking their lips and giving a whole bunch of "you go girl" comments.