MurderSheWrote
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The idea for this thread stems from the thread about Bob Johnson's daughter...
Black men in that thread asked why black women don't "check" each other for dating outside the race? Well the answer to this question is quite simple:
Black women who date outside the race don't typically throw the opposite sex under the bus when doing so.
I'm not talking about the chicks on the internet who only talk about dating outside the race. I'm talking about black women who actually DO date outside the race and have married outside the race. These women met someone they liked, who happened to be non-black, and they went on about their business with that individual.
I have never heard Sanaa Lathan, Kerry Washington, Robin Givens, or any famous black woman that swirls say, "The reason I date non-black men is because black men aren't x, y, and z stereotype."
However, on the flip side of all this COUNTLESS numbers of famous black men have shytted on black women while putting non-black women on a pedestal.
I believe this is why black women/non-black men unions last longer. They come across as more genuine and REAL.
I honestly don't believe the average black woman would give two shyts about the average black man dating outside the race if they didn't shyt on black women while doing it.
Also, I stated this in my comment on that thread...
Your thoughts?
Black men in that thread asked why black women don't "check" each other for dating outside the race? Well the answer to this question is quite simple:
Black women who date outside the race don't typically throw the opposite sex under the bus when doing so.
I'm not talking about the chicks on the internet who only talk about dating outside the race. I'm talking about black women who actually DO date outside the race and have married outside the race. These women met someone they liked, who happened to be non-black, and they went on about their business with that individual.
I have never heard Sanaa Lathan, Kerry Washington, Robin Givens, or any famous black woman that swirls say, "The reason I date non-black men is because black men aren't x, y, and z stereotype."
However, on the flip side of all this COUNTLESS numbers of famous black men have shytted on black women while putting non-black women on a pedestal.
I believe this is why black women/non-black men unions last longer. They come across as more genuine and REAL.
I honestly don't believe the average black woman would give two shyts about the average black man dating outside the race if they didn't shyt on black women while doing it.
Also, I stated this in my comment on that thread...
We don't ever hear black women who date outside the race say dumb shyt about the race as is the case with a lot of black men who date out. Black women tend to keep a foot in the black community despite dating outside the black community.
Even when some black women go outside the race, they feel guilty for doing so as was the case with Halle Berry. I will never understand why she felt a need to justify her decision to date white men. As far as I'm concerned she, nor any other black woman, owes black men an apology for finding love/happiness in the arms of a non-black man. That is their business and more power to them. I feel the same way about black men who date/marry outside the race and don't bash black women.
On the other hand black men like Kobe Bryant go around saying dumb shyt like they can't understand black people, he doesn't relate to black people or he doesn't identify with black people.
You got OJ Simpson out here saying, "I'm not black...I'm just OJ."
You got ratchet ninjas like Slim Thug saying dumb shyt like, “My girl is Black and White. I guess the half White in her is where she still cooks and do all the shyt that I say, so we make it. She just takes care of me and I like that. She don’t be begging and I don’t gotta buy her all this crazy ass shyt. And she’s a smart girl too.”
You got folks like Michael Jordan who has made MILLIONS of dollars off stupid ninjas killing each other over his high priced urban shoes. Yet, this mofo shoes are made in CHINA. The dire employment situation of the folks who have made him rich doesn't appear to be a priority for him. Young idiots kills each other over his shoes doesn't seem to be a priority for him.
What's funny about ^^^this situation is I once read a thread on here from an ignorant ninja who was mad at Oprah for not doing enough for black males. Mind you this woman has sent black men through college with everything paid. She has given millions of dollars to HBCUs. Yet, somehow or the other she "owes" black men something more than she's already given. Funny how these same demands are NEVER dropped on the doorsteps of the ninjas y'all actually support. Black men don't even like Oprah. So, I will never understand why/how some of you feel she should help you.
You got folks like Micheal Jackson, who obvious suffered from self-hate singing shyt like "It doesn't matter if you're black or white..." yet white folks tried to lynch his arse (and continue to do so even in death).
You got ninjas out here making youtube videos, raps songs and singing ninja chorals about liking and loving white women while singing about how horrible black women are in the breath.
^^^You won't find this mess going on with black women who do date/marry out. We date/marry out and we go on about our business. No need to sing a tribute to ALL non-black men. No need to verbally disassociate ourselves from the black race. No need to act like racial issues are a thing of the past (hello Michael Jackson and OJ Simpson). No need to diss black men in song while promoting non-black men. I highly doubt Halle Berry would stand by and watch black women kill each other over her perfume and make up line and not say anything about the situation. In fact, she would probably either stop promoting it or help make it more affordable to the average black woman.
Your thoughts?
Holy shyt this chick is crazy as fukk. 
so using my 'give 2 shyts' phase 
