The desperation in women to get married from 25-30 is :wow:

[Actually6Foot3]

That's why I laugh at Black women when they lead with their degrees, salary, etc. when attempting to highlight why they're a catch.

Most of that will become a non-factor once a woman pops out the second child.

I know a lot of women who were professionals that dropped out the workforce once the kids were born.

THIS

Honestly. Search any black female forum and half the post are..

"I'm cute, have 7 degrees, a good job WHY CANT I FIND A MAN"

They don't understand that men are NOT trying to date Chics that want to be men. no one gives AF about your stupid job. nikkas will scoop the cute barista working 25 hours a week at $9.50 an hour and wife that before they wife some older chic working working 50 hours a week in finance making 125k who has no time for him once she comes home cause she's tired.

Men like

Youth and attractiveness. Men are not hypergamous like women. The issue with women is they project what they look for in a man into men themselves thinking that that must be what men for in them

 

[mamba]

THIS

Honestly. Search any black female forum and half the post are..

"I'm cute, have 7 degrees, a good job WHY CANT I FIND A MAN"

They don't understand that men are NOT trying to date Chics that want to be men. no one gives AF about your stupid job. nikkas will scoop the cute barista working 25 hours a week at $9.50 an hour and wife that before they wife some older chic working working 50 hours a week in finance making 125k who has no time for him once she comes home cause she's tired.

Men like

Youth and attractiveness. Men are not hypergamous like women. The issue with women is they project what they look for in a man into men themselves thinking that that must be what men for in them

This is true. I try to tell women I know this all the time.

Men don't give a shyt about a woman's degree, job title and so on. Maybe a nikka trying to leech off a woman would care. But, any man with something going for himself is looking for a woman to be feminine, youthful and attractive.

 

[Tribal Outkast]

Wait til you’re in your 30’s.. You’re still trying to figure it out in your 20’s

 

[intra vires]

It really is... my girl turned just 24 in September and she's starting to act marriage-crazed.

It probably doesn't help that we went to a few weddings last year or that a couple we're friends with, who have been together a year less, just got engaged on NYE.

However, all the couples I mentioned are older than us and further along in their careers. We still need to resolve our location issue before marriage can even be a path forward.

Somehow she doesn't get this...

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

A lot of dudes talking about black women, as usual. What did black women do to you? It's all women. You think them white chicks don't know they can't get half yo shyt

That said, it's not worth it to get married, unless you get with a woman in your level. Don't marry a bum bytch and you'll keep most of your stuff in case the inevitable

 

[Serious]

My biggest issue is woman who are anxious to be married, just be married. Like they're looking past red flags for long term compatibility and traits.

For example I've dated women with traits I knew I couldn't compromise on long term.

 

[360dagod]

My biggest issue is woman who are anxious to be married, just be married. Like they're looking past red flags for long term compatibility and traits.

For example I've dated women with traits I knew I couldn't compromise on long term.

They care about the experience...not the actual day to day work...

From babies to marriages, it's all about the experience.. then they will try to figure the shyt out later...

 

[Solano707]

A lot of these older women will try to make you feel bad for not marrying or dating women their age, especially if they are desperate and see you with younger women on the regular.

Hella true.

Im divorced with 4 kids with my ex wife.

I'm well established with multiple degrees and everything else to match. I've dated woman around my age (I'm 37) and when I say I'm casually dating and not looking for anything serious, they are like "it's not attractive for men your age to date around like the"... bytch please

Don't guilt trip me in to anything. And these are older women, no kids never been married too.

Women are of abundance when you got your shyt wired tight. They can't stand it if you got your shyt together and know it.

 

[360dagod]

It really is... my girl turned just 24 in September and she's starting to act marriage-crazed.

It probably doesn't help that we went to a few weddings last year or that a couple we're friends with, who have been together a year less, just got engaged on NYE.

However, all the couples I mentioned are older than us and further along in their careers. We still need to resolve our location issue before marriage can even be a path forward.

Somehow she doesn't get this...

You waiting your time my nikka...
Just focus on you and continue to build...

 

[Serious]

Hella true.

Im divorced with 4 kids with my ex wife.

I'm well established with multiple degrees and everything else to match. I've dated woman around my age (I'm 37) and when I say I'm casually dating and not looking for anything serious, they are like "it's not attractive for men your age to date around like the"... bytch please

Don't guilt trip me in to anything. And these are older women, no kids never been married too.

Women are of abundance when you got your shyt wired tight. They can't stand it if you got your shyt together and know it.

The irony is don't be surprised if they're in a casual and purely sexual relationship with a dude 10 years younger as well. ( @Hennessypapi )

 

[Serious]

It really is... my girl turned just 24 in September and she's starting to act marriage-crazed.

It probably doesn't help that we went to a few weddings last year or that a couple we're friends with, who have been together a year less, just got engaged on NYE.

However, all the couples I mentioned are older than us and further along in their careers. We still need to resolve our location issue before marriage can even be a path forward.

Somehow she doesn't get this...

Careful not to be guilted into marriage, especially if there's red flags regarding behavior. Women at 24, have a way thinking they know it all and are ready settle down. The delusional shyt I encounter is mindblowing.

 

[MaxPain]

The irony is don't be surprised if they're in a casual and purely sexual relationship with a dude 10 years younger as well. ( @Hennessypapi )

I lied about my age thothey think I'm a young looking 35 year old.


Just started talking to this thick Colombian milf with too much botox:WoohLawd:

 

[Cynic]

It really is... my girl turned just 24 in September and she's starting to act marriage-crazed.

It probably doesn't help that we went to a few weddings last year or that a couple we're friends with, who have been together a year less, just got engaged on NYE.

However, all the couples I mentioned are older than us and further along in their careers. We still need to resolve our location issue before marriage can even be a path forward.

Somehow she doesn't get this...

Women feel their way through things...Using logic/rational isn't productive

Just gaslight her or have an extremely short memory ...

 

[Serious]

I lied about my age thothey think I'm a young looking 35 year old.


Just started talking to this thick Colombian milf with too much botox:WoohLawd:

Man I don't get it, I tried messing with an older woman recently but couldn't get past her looking old. Kinda felt like I was wasting my time because I could easily be with a more attractive woman closer to my age, with less signs of aging.

You'd have a field day out here, running into all the woman that are quasi in the entertainment industry and selling them dreams.

I just ain't about that deception life, but if I was

 

[Solano707]

The irony is don't be surprised if they're in a casual and purely sexual relationship with a dude 10 years younger as well. ( @Hennessypapi )

yeah, but they only putting up with a casual sexual relationship in hopes of turning the dude into wanting a relationship. From personal experience, its been too many times I had to tell women to chill after me breaking up with them, they wanting to have a FWB situation... I know what they really trying to do.