The desperation in women to get married from 25-30 is :wow:

[Mac Tyson]

yeah, saying yes to your bf's proposal. Such a terrible thing. what a rotten person I am.

Did u mean it all 3 times? How yung was u the first time? How deep were u into each relationship when it happened? What kinda music u like?

 

[Ashley Banks]

Edit: she was homeschooled and has a super over protective pops

That explains alot...she gone be single for a long time

that's the plan

and I was only home schooled for the end of junior year & my senior year in HS.

anyways you should stop making a big deal out of nothing. My exes moved on, my first bf has a kid & my 2nd has a gf now.

@Sunshine 3 nikkas asked u to marry them and u only 22

I was gonna say that p*ssy must be ridiculous but ur a virgin

Yo pops a millionaire or sumthin, why nikkas wanna get in the family so bad?

I think you guys see marriage a lot differently than they do. You guys see it as marry the greatest person on earth & they see it as marry the person you love. I don't think I'm anything special and neither is my family, I think they just thought that, that was what they wanted to do at the time.

Did u mean it all 3 times? How yung was u the first time? How deep were u into each relationship when it happened? What kinda music u like?

Of course I meant it, I wouldn't date someone I couldn't see myself being with long term. I was 18 the first time.

I like all types of music, except heavy metal.

 

[The Embellished Bell Hair]

Did you meet them all at the malt shop or something when they complimented your poodle skirt. I'm surprised stuff like this goes down.

 

[Youseenmywork]

@Sunshine are your parents religious at all?

 

[Mac Tyson]

that's the plan

and I was only home schooled for the end of junior year & my senior year in HS.

anyways you should stop making a big deal out of nothing. My exes moved on, my first bf has a kid & my 2nd has a gf now.



I think you guys see marriage a lot differently than they do. You guys see it as marry the greatest person on earth & they see it as marry the person you love. I don't think I'm anything special and neither is my family, I think they just thought that, that was what they wanted to do at the time.



Of course I meant it, I wouldn't date someone I couldn't see myself being with long term. I was 18 the first time.

I like all types of music, except heavy metal.

Maybe u undersellin urself cuz gettin 3 marriage proposals in like 4 yrs at 22 aint some regular shyt. Do u happen to give sloppy ass bjs and suck the balls too when u do it? cuz dat shyt is known to make nikkas do crazy shyt

I kno u like Taylor swift. Me too
U do like Taylor Swift right

Btw how long were u into each relationship when they proposed?

 

[LezJepzin]

Thinking about having lunch with this girl I went to Senior Prom with when I go to LA next month. She's an architect, 32, no kids, an example of that black don't crack .
She's bad but I never seriously pursued her because we were going separate paths in our lives. Plus she wasn't on Social Media until last year.

Ironically, I ran into her last at a wedding .

 

[Mac Tyson]

I broke up with him since you know only a gay man would be faithful to a virgin and since he's not gay, that means he isn't faithful.

He's not taking it as well as I thought he would.



You do know all that means is 3 people asked me to marry them, right? Sooo delusional.

U always talk about the colis beliefs on women and here u r sayin dis shyt or wuz dat sarcasm

And it also means u said yea 3 times. In 4 yrs. Did u rly believe each time u wanted to spend the rest of ur life with that person? Or u jus didnt wanna break their heart? It seems jus kinda premature and naive(for lack of a better term). Why did things fall apart each time?

 

[Easy-E]

I feel so bad dappin' this is golden

 

[Ashley Banks]

Did you meet them all at the malt shop or something when they complimented your poodle skirt. I'm surprised stuff like this goes down.

you guys truly know how to make a big deal out of nothing.

Maybe u undersellin urself cuz gettin 3 marriage proposals in like 4 yrs at 22 aint some regular shyt. Do u happen to give sloppy ass bjs and suck the balls too when u do it? cuz dat shyt is known to make nikkas do crazy shyt

I kno u like Taylor swift. Me too
U do like Taylor Swift right

Btw how long were u into each relationship when they proposed?

Or maybe you guys just think differently than the guys I date.

No nothing, special.

1st, 8 months. 2nd, 1 yr a few months, can't say for my current. since his family does things differently, we're not engaged according to them.

U always talk about the colis beliefs on women and here u r sayin dis shyt or wuz dat sarcasm

And it also means u said yea 3 times. In 4 yrs. Did u rly believe each time u wanted to spend the rest of ur life with that person? Or u jus didnt wanna break their heart? It seems jus kinda premature and naive(for lack of a better term). Why did things fall apart each time?

I was joking lol.

@ the bold, Both Obviously it was "premature and naive" but for some reason you guys don't understand that and think it's a huge deal.

My first bf broke up with me because he said I was immature and didn't really love/want to marry him.
I broke up with my 2nd bf because he was extremely insecure and it made him act nutty.

anyways you guys are blowing this way out of proportion. Like it's reallllyyy not that serious. All they did was ask me to marry them, obviously it wasn't a big deal to either of us yet you guys are just sooo blown away by it. I guess since you guys are so against marriage you guys make every part of the process (even the engagement which means absolutely nothing) into a big deal.

 

[Mac Tyson]

stuff like what goes down? you guys truly make a big deal out of nothing. All they did was ask me to marry them and I said yes. People get engaged every single day, breh.



Or maybe you guys just think differently than the guys I date.

No nothing, special.

1st, 8 months

2nd, 1 yr a few months

can't say for my current. since his family does things differently, we're not engaged according to them.



I was joking lol.

@ the bold, Both

My first bf broke up with me because he said I was immature and didn't really love/want to marry him.
I broke up with my 2nd bf because he was extremely insecure and it made him act nutty.

anyways you guys are blowing this way out of proportion. Like it's reallllyyy not that serious. All they did was ask me to marry them, obviously it wasn't a big deal to either of us yet you guys are just sooo blown away by it. I guess since you guys are so against marriage you guys make every part of the process (even the engagement which means absolutely nothing) into a big deal.

Act like marriage proposal isnt a big deal brehettes.



No wonder the divorce rate is so high these days with females like u thinkin like dat of marriage

 

[Ashley Banks]

Act like marriage proposal isnt a big deal brehettes.



No wonder the divorce rate is so high these days with females like u thinkin like dat of marriage

what are you talking about? Since when is a proposal the same thing as marriage? Where did I say what I think about marriage?

Obviously the proposals weren't a big deal, that's why we aren't together. That's why I'm saying you guys are making a huge deal out of nothing. We thought we wanted to get married, we changed our minds. I'm not seeing the problem you guys have with that.

 

[Mac Tyson]

what are you talking about? Since when is a proposal the same thing as marriage? Where did I say what I think about marriage?

Obviously the proposals weren't a big deal, that's why we aren't together. That's why I'm saying you guys are making a huge deal out of nothing. We thought we wanted to get married, we changed our minds. I'm not seeing the problem you guys have with that.

Bruh... bruh bruh... if u accept a proposal obviously u INTEND to get married. If u think ppl jus proposin left n right like it aint nuttin is ok obviously dat says sumthin about how u value marriage.

3 times u entered the process of gettin married in the past 4 yrs. And to u das "not a big deal".

When u actually get married(and subsequently divorce) ur prolly gonna be saying the same thing "we thought we wanted to get married but changed our mind. Its not a big deal."

 

[Ashley Banks]

Bruh... bruh bruh... if u accept a proposal obviously u INTEND to get married. If u think ppl jus proposin left n right like it aint nuttin is ok obviously dat says sumthin about how u value marriage.

3 times u entered the process of gettin married in the past 4 yrs. And to u das "not a big deal".

When u actually get married(and subsequently divorce) ur prolly gonna be saying the same thing "we thought we wanted to get married but changed our mind. Its not a big deal."

This is really getting annoying saying the same thing over and over and you guys still refuse to understand.

I value marriage. me not thinking my engagements when I was a teenager to my EXES (you know, the people I'm no longer dating) is a big deal has nothing to do with what I think about marriage. I was never married, we didn't plan a wedding, we didn't talk about kids, we didn't set a wedding date. we were just engaged. Then we broke up. that's why I think they were no big deal. We were just two young people that thought we wanted to get married (and obviously that didn't happen).

@ the bold: WRONG, saying you want to get married is different from actually getting married. and If I do get married, I will more than likely not get divorced.

 

[Mac Tyson]

This is really getting annoying saying the same thing over and over and you guys still refuse to understand.

I value marriage. me not thinking my engagements when I was a teenager to my EXES (you know, the people I'm no longer dating) is a big deal has nothing to do with what I think about marriage. I was never married, we didn't plan a wedding, we didn't talk about kids, we didn't set a wedding date. we were just engaged. Then we broke up. that's why I think they were no big deal. We were just two young people that thought we wanted to get married.

@ the bold: WRONG, saying you want to get married is different from actually getting married. and If I do get married, I will more than likely not get divorced.

So now u were a teenager all 3 times rite

And them being ur exes makes it even worse u were willing to get married to 3 guys dat finally it didnt even last long wit

Iight iight lemme just ask u 1 question. How long did u think ur engagement was gonna last wit deze guys before u got married?

Mattafact, lemme ask u a 2nd question, why do u think gettin engaged is such a trivial thing when it is the genesis to a marriage and essentially a commitment to that?
Yes u didnt get married those 3 times, but ur acting like its completely meaningless. Im not even judgin u like that at all, jus kinda "appalled" if u wish.

U think buddy u engaged wit rite now is the one?

 

[Benjamin Sisko]

I know this white chick in her late 20s. Not a bad-looking white woman. She's so desperate, it's not even funny anymore, brehs. I met her at a sports bar last November. Two weeks later she was inviting me to have Thanksgiving with her family. This is someone I'd only had a conversation with at a bar and nothing else afterward! I guess she feared showing up at Thanksgiving without a man when all of her other family members are married!

Last time I talked to her, she was heavy on the online dating shyt. It gets real for women who grew up in families in which marriage is the norm.

Wait, she wanted to take your black ass to meet the family??