The desperation in women to get married from 25-30 is :wow:

[Ashley Banks]

yeah right....so she gonna be some satisfied cat lady

either have kids and "a man" or be a cat lady. The only two options in life, according to the males on the coli.

 

[Yup]

yeah right....so she gonna be some satisfied cat lady

Not every woman wants kids and a husband. Trust, companionship sure, but that white picket fence fantasy is not for everyone.

 

[Mowgli]

Some if the coldest women I know have admitted to me that they be jealous as shyt watching their friends get hitched.

Its biological. The longer they wait, the more chances they have of having a child with mental problems and at worst retardation. Same with men. The younger you have your kid, the healthier they are.

 

[DrX]

Not every woman wants kids and a husband. Trust, companionship sure, but that white picket fence fantasy is not for everyone.

r u a female ?

 

[Ashley Banks]

Not every woman wants kids and a husband. Trust, companionship sure, but that white picket fence fantasy is not for everyone.

Dude, I don't get why they don't understand that. It's like you either have to live your life exactly like they want you to or you're going to be a cat lady. Like there's absolutely nothing else that you can do with your life.

 

[mamba]

you're acting like that's a bad thing. I don't want kids & since I don't want kids what exactly do I need a man for?

Why do you currently have a boyfriend if you have no need for a man?

You don't have sex with him either?

That nikka has to be gay or something.

 

[DrX]

Dude, I don't get why they don't understand that. It's like you either have to live your life exactly like they want you to or you're going to be a cat lady. Like there's absolutely nothing else that you can do with your life.

what else r u gonna do with ur life babe? be some miserable business women with "a good paying job" and lonely

 

[Ashley Banks]

what else r u gonna do with ur life babe? be some miserable business women with "a good paying job" and lonely

Question, why do you want me to miserable so badly? You do know that getting married and having children won't make me happy, right? So if I'm going to be a "miserable business woman" chances are I'll be a miserable wife and mother as well.

Why do you currently have a boyfriend if you have no need for a man?

You don't have sex with him either?

That nikka has to be gay or something.

Do I have to explain this to you guys everyday? I have no need for friends but I have them because I like them/love them. Get it? needing something is different from wanting something. what's hilarious is if I was a male saying this, no one would have a problem with this. I would get tons of daps and reps but since I'm a female I'm not allowed to want anything that doesn't include a man and children.

and my bfs not gay. Though I'm not sure why you care.

 

[DrX]

Question, why do you want me to miserable so badly? You do know that getting married and having children won't make me happy, right? So if I'm going to be a "miserable business woman" chances are I'll be a miserable wife and mother as well.



Do I have to explain this to you guys everyday? I have no need for friends but I have them because I like them/love them. Get it? needing something is different from wanting something. what's hilarious is if I was a male saying this, no one would have a problem with this. I would get tons of daps and reps but since I'm a female I'm not allowed to want anything that doesn't include a man and children.

and my bfs not gay. Though I'm not sure why you care.

ur philosophy is unrealistic and bound to collapse....and ur BF is sus if yall not having sex and hes still around, that should be a red flag....

 

[Ashley Banks]

ur philosophy is unrealistic and bound to collapse....and ur BF is sus if yall not having sex and hes still around, that should be a red flag....

So you've never heard of men marrying virgins? You do know they have to date before they get married, right? Or did you think they met and got married immediately? I guess every man that has ever married a virgin is "sus".

@the bold, lmfao You coli dudes are beyond ridiculous. I guess everything that doesn't follow what you think women should do is "unrealistic and bound to collapse". this is hilarious.

 

[DrX]

So you've never heard of men marrying virgins? You do know they have to date before they get married, right? Or did you think they met and got married immediately? I guess every man that has ever married a virgin is "sus".

@the bold, lmfao You coli dudes are beyond ridiculous. I guess everything that doesn't follow what you think women should do is "unrealistic and bound to collapse". this is hilarious.

fine, i see it my way and u see it yours...but get prepared for a mental breakdown in the future.....i have no more to say.....enjoy the rest of ur sunday afternoon

 

[Ashley Banks]

fine, i see it my way and u see it yours...but get prepared for a mental breakdown in the future.....i have no more to say.....enjoy the rest of ur sunday afternoon

lmfao you coli dudes are such bytches "either have a man and kids or prepare for a mental breakdown " wtf you dudes must have the most miserable lives on earth if you think the only way to be happy is to get married and have kids. and I'm dying at you seriously thinking that getting married and having children can make someone happy.

lmfao "get prepared for a mental breakdown"

 

[mamba]

ur philosophy is unrealistic and bound to collapse....and ur BF is sus if yall not having sex and hes still around, that should be a red flag....

He's either gay or smashing p*ssy on the side.

 

[Ashley Banks]

He's either gay or smashing p*ssy on the side.

You do know in some cultures men only marry virgins, right? Doesn't the coli say they're only going to marry virgins, you know you're going to have to date them first, right? Or are you guys going to have an arranged marriage or something? Where you meet then immediately get married.

 

[mamba]

So you've never heard of men marrying virgins? You do know they have to date before they get married, right? Or did you think they met and got married immediately? I guess every man that has ever married a virgin is "sus".

@the bold, lmfao You coli dudes are beyond ridiculous. I guess everything that doesn't follow what you think women should do is "unrealistic and bound to collapse". this is hilarious.

That's typically if the man is also a virgin. Is your BF a virgin? If so, it makes sense.

But, if he came into the relationship a non-virgin, please believe he's smashed something on the side since you all have been together. That's just how it is, brehette.