When we lived in the days that men had to get married at age 14-and-a-half, women could afford to just pretty themselves up, show that they were good company and great in the household and go out and get a man.
Today’s advanced woman, dealing with today’s advanced man, hasn’t progressed in the dating atmosphere to the point of developing “hunting skills” to tap into a man’s motivations or desires. They haven’t learned game, because they haven’t had to.
They used to get chosen on the merit of their looks and the attributes that followed, but today’s man isn’t as focused on settling down as he once was, and the women on the market today haven’t cultivated the skills to make him feel that he’s missing out on something.
If I were to ask one of my woman friends who are single and looking how they would go out right now to get a man, it probably would begin with looking great, and end with conversation on what he should have to do in order to win her. That’s like me, in the midst of recession, half heartedly sending out my resume and then coming into the interview with an ego, telling the job conditions they must accept if they hope to hire me.