I feel Coreys stance on that, cuz I used to be a hot head and I wouldve and have reacted that same way.
Like quick story getting my
@Sweet Meat Chaucer on
And mind you, I'm kinda coming in the middle of this story cuz there is a lot of shyt thats sets it up but I dont wanna make the thread/post too long so just giving a snippet as best I can....
But my freshman year at A&T..... around Homecoming my FIRST GHOE
..... I went crazy and starting getting lucky smashing a LOT of chicks leading up homecoming. I mean I swear around that time with the buzz, chicks on the yard got horny as fukk just be down for it.
So this one night which happen be night 4 out of 6 nights of me smashing broads down.... I'm walking to the girls dorm to meet this other chick who I had got her number a week earlier (lets call her
Kim).
I get to side of the campus where the girls dorms are at with my boys and I meet Kim outside and was about to walk with her to this spot where my boys (we like 7 deep) were walking to with some other chicks but then I see this chick that I had fukked 3 nights prior (lets call her
Monica) just out there lounging at the front of her dorm and I also see some other 2 chicks that one of my boys is cool with (who hated me for some reason, lets call them
Tara and
Crystal) kinda on the steps of another dorm just chilling drinking some liquor. When they see me I hear one of them bytches scream "oh there goes that bytch ass nicca right there"
Like we was gridlocked in a triangle.
I'm trynna play it off cuz I dont wanna fukk the p*ssy off for that night with Kim but I knew some shyt was about to pop off and I couldnt just leave like a bytch and head back to my dorm, plus it was a nice warm night, all my homies was here and fukk was I supposed to do back in my room? Get on the Dreamcast?
So I'm just chilling with Kim shooting the shyt but locked in that one spot cuz any further I'm kinda in the red zone cuz it was like EVERYONE was waiting for me to enter to start up whatever fukkery. I'm having casual talk but trynna figure out how I can get her to just leave with me and come back to my side of the yard but not press or be thirsty. I see Monica to my lefts just looking at me with daggers like "WTF" waiting for me to come over to her, and I see Tara and Crystal to my right getting drunker and just randomly taunting me and talking shyt about me. My boys were at first kinda oblivious cuz they like me was just out there politicing with chicks they knew and trynna set they own shyt up but slowly they start catching on the tension and then started to sit back and watch this unfold.
Finally Monica I guess gets tired of waiting and just rolls up on us like "Bryan, what the fukk is this and whats really good nicca?"
See quick backstory, as stated earlier I had just fukk her 3 nights prior and ghosted her, no call backs no chilling with her all that after the days prior I was rocking with her. So she aggy about that naturally.
Kim looking puzzled like
and I'm trynna be cool and diffuse this situation. Luckily one of my boys came in for the save and snatched up almost like how they kick cats off the stage on Showtime at the Apollo
Kim was like "what was that about?"
and I'm like
"I dont know" but low key watching my boy drag her away like
Then she's like "why them other 2 broads talking shyt about you?" (Cuz T and C still being loud and talking shyt across the way) and I'm like "nothing just some bullshyt"
So still trynna kick the bullshyt to get Kim to come over to my dorm, I guess finally Tara and Crystal get tired of waiting for me to enter they courtyard area more so Tara finally says "fukk this shyt" and starts walking over to me and I'm like "oh shyt here way go"
So Tara pops off like "Yea nicca I hear you been talking shyt about us"
Now pause, quick backstory.... I never done nothing to these chicks. They was cool with a couple of my boys, one was fukking Crystal in fact. The few times I was around them I was always cordial but they seem to give me a fukk you vibe but I kinda dismissed it and was always nice. One day, in front of the boys dorm we saw them and they had a box of pizza. I was just fukking around but I asked Crystal for a slice and she was like "Its not my pizza, you cant have none"
and I'm like cool (low key, I aint even want none and would've rejected had she given me a slice, but I was just fukking with her, it was nothing) Then litereally some random dudes come up and ask for a slice and she was all like "Oh yea you can have a slice of my pizza"
Then I'm like
"Yo I thought you said it wasnt yours, damn ma you did me dirty."
I was still in jokey jokey jest mode but it wasnt that serious. I later told my boy that was fukking her the situation but it was a playful convo nothing malicious just what had happened and I was like "I dont think she like me breh"
But he was like "na it aint like that"
Back to story and just gonna post the conversation how it was....
Tara: Motherfukker I hear you been talking shyt, so say that shyt now bytch
Me: Yo, I dont even know what you're talking about
(and really I didnt until later on putting the pieces together)
Tara: Yes you do you little bytch
(mind you I'm 6'5 265lbs ish at the time and this bytch like 5'9 180lbs)
Me: Man whatever dont no one be thinking about you
Tara: fukk you you lying ass bytch, you aint shyt
Me: Ok whatever
Tara: You a bytch
Me: Ok, I'm a bytch, you a bytch, we all bytches keep it moving
Now my boys over there rolling like
cuz shyt is funny to them and a crowd is building up cuz we shouting so everyone looking at the spectacle. But what no one realize is with the way this chick was trynna humiliate me and demean me, my anger was building up and I was about to explode but was trynna give her a pass cuz I'm a dude, she a woman and thats just not how I was raise or a good look especially publicly. But she keeps running her mouth, Kim standing there looking like
Between all the screaming back and forth, finally Crystal comes out the woodwork and this is when shyt popped off and I lost it. Crystal (her little 5'1 92lb boney ass) aggressively power walks up (cuz initially it was just me, Kim and Monica) and says this to me;
Crystal: Listen motherfukker, I better not EVER hear my name come out your mouth again you bytch ass nicca of I'm gonna smack the shyt out of you and if I dont fukk you up, I'm gonna get some niccas I know to fukk you up"
Coli brehs
..... thats when something in me snapped and I blacked THE fukk out and attempted to murder that bytch in front of everyone out there on the yard. Now my boys had to be about 20-30 yards from us and they was like 3 ft away from me but when I lunged at her with my hands next thing I know I felt like 4 niccas grab me and tried they restrain me from fukking this bytch up. Like they had had to ran like a 4.3 forty or faster to get to me.
Like I lost it, I had so much rage and that moment looking at them I could tell even they knew they fukked up cuz they whole demeanor changed to FEAR like.
And the reason I was so mad was, my thing was, if you telling me, you gonna get some random cats who I wouldnt know to come jump me over some silly shyt, well I'm just gonna fukk you up right here and now and not give you that chance to do that, cuz I'm not gonna be looking over my back.
It took everyone of my boys to get me away from them cuz I was coming and it was gonna be fukked up.... I was gonna do them like that bear did Leo in that movie cuz now it was no longer about gender, I felt threaten and I was gonna handle it.
Kim to my surprise was a big part of calming me down while 5 dudes was restraining me and my other boy trynna get them to their dorm.
Ultimately Kim (to get me away) decided to walk me back to my dorm and yall know what happens next.
But all that was just to say, I get where Corey is coming from. You never know how someone can be boiling up and you should never come at them in an aggressive or still a$$hole manner cuz you never know how that shyt can detonate.
Martha