what you guys need to focus on this:
8 Keep to a path far from her,
do not go near the door of her house,
9 lest you lose your honor to others
and your dignity[a] to one who is cruel,
10 lest strangers feast on your wealth
and your toil enrich the house of another.
this is the curse many men in today's society are finding themselves living under.
Spot on. Cats mess with the wrong one and another man gets rich off their labor...