Honestly....I don't know.
As a man, how often do you anticipate in a formal gathering of your peers to be grabbed by the balls like you are chattel slavery on the plantation, in front of your wife?
He thought he was in a safe environment, and if yall recall, he
claims his wife told him to chill out. He
claims he was going to put hands on the guy in an injurious or stunning fashion. He
claims his wife "held him back".
We can all sit here and say what we would have done in his shoes, with or without our wife at our side. We just don't know.
A powerful shove?
Punch him in the face?
Toss him across the floor?
Call the police?
What exactly do you do?
There is 1) Violent automatic outburst 2) Strategic let me process my reaction first.
He can't control the future, he can only control his reaction. Now you can argue that Terry Crews as an actor does some comedic bits that aren't masculine and maybe even embarrassing and breathe life into the stereotype of a strong black man jovially dancing for no damn reason.....true....but that is no reason to get your balls grabbed.
There's alot of dialogue about this situation.