Step your game up as in handle your business. You should be more concerned with making sure your paper is right and making sure you're handling business than with what a chick thinks is attractive. Once your house is in order everything else follows, including the women.
there are a lot of people who follow that and still resort to tricking. Having a good job/ career isn't going to make things magically fall into place. That is one of the biggest lies I have ever heard.