I agree but it just seems like a lot of y’all have some sort of animosity towards black women. If nonblack women protect, love, and cherish black men more than black women then you guys need to be with them.
Man I swear . It's like black women don't understand if you don't invest in your black boys the balck little girls want have any prospects. I'm so damn tired of black women saying " well me and my girls aren't like ". Black men have been on the summer jam screen since the crack era. In my hood you heard a lot of the aunties and black mothers tell the girls " now if you get a boyfriend or husband make sure he love you more than you love them". See mom's love black boys but they RAISE they daughters. Black women don't want to take responsibility for NOTHING . See mothers and Aunties taught women to work for themselves and get they education . Which poisons the well for black men cause mother and Aunties felt "oppressed" by black men so they poisoned the well for the next few generation. They taught black girls that back men aren't realisable , they not trustworthy, they lazy etc. What they forgot to tell you is it's black women raises these MEN. I get that some dad's left but many was pushed out and just did the best they could.
Now black are dating out and people wadering why? Look at what these boys grow up seeing . Nobody cares about blacks men's story and listen and hear another side of why things are the WAY they are . Instead you hear the same old shyt from black women . "You hate yourself since you date out". "Your mother is black". "You have to HATE black women if you date out". "You just want the easy way out ".
I don't want hear this bullshyt that black women aren't all the day cause it's been in media since I was a kid Oprah now Tyler Perry etc. Black women and some men support that shyt in mass . That's why I block the nikkas in her that pander to the so-called "queans ". NOBODY cares about black men that includes black WOMEN....and noni want qualify the statement .
In the world of
Frederick Douglass : It's easier to build strong black boys than to rebuild broken men .
Black men aren't here just to serve back women and the community regardless of what the boomer and the XERs generations told you .
EDIT: The reason black women don't feel a need to compete for black men with other races of women is because ....black women as a WHOLE don't think HIGHLY of black men. That and black women don't feel a need to change they mating strategy .