Let's be reality, you knew what you were doing the entire time, you weren't raped or coerced into having sex with this white man. This is what you wanted you made a choice. Now you realized after breeding away your Blackness, that maybe just maybe you made a mistake and that being with this white man and bearing a very lightskinned child was going to ABSOLVE you from your Blackness like it is a sin and it didn't. You're still Black and no matter how much you try to remove yourself from Blackness it will not go any where. Again she waited until she was well into adulthood to have pride in herself and now it's too late. That baby didn't ask to be born but there she is, love her like you would a more dark skinned child.