Sammy was with the same chick since before he was even in wrestling, she was a part of his vlogs that he does apparently (i've never watched any) and he even proposed to her during an AEW show in the ring to further him being a babyface. Only a couple months later he puts out a post saying they broke up and everyone speculates it's because he cheated with Tay Conti, then only a week or two later Sammy and Tay have posts together coupled up confirming everybody's suspicions
As for the other one, not sure what podcast he was on but Sammy I think was talking about doing an NXT try out and seeing Sasha there and he said she looked so good he wanted to rape her