i've simped hard over chicks in the past and once I finally got to the point where we were dating or an item... I slowly lose interest. At some point I ask myself, can I live with this chick and its down hill from there. I think I've overlooked flaws in the past too just because of the physical attraction. Now that I'm older, I look at women in a different light. I still size chicks up physically and think about what the sex would be like, but I also look at the intagibles.