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At the end of the day, as a guy, once you take a chick out, it's your responsibility that she gets back home safely. It's just like when a chick comes to your house to see you, it's common courtesy to call her a few hours after she leaves, to check if she's back to her house, safely - regardless of what transpired when she left. I dunno but that's how I was raised and my old heads schooled me right.

I know the first instinct when you're in the moment, would be, "fukk this bytch - get the fukk out of my car!" However, if something were to happen to her, you're culpable as well and your conscience will never forgive you. Even if you tell her to get the fukk out and drive off - if you're human, once the smoke clears and you calm down, you're going to be a tad worried. Unless you're just numb to humanity and heartless.

So, why not save yourself the hassle and do it right once and for all? Always use better judgement, breh.
Because sometimes a lesson has to be taught :yeshrug:As I said, I left my ex in the middle of nowhere in a foreign country and she learned her lesson that day :yeshrug: I told her from the beginning that I don't do stupid fights. We can have disagreements, but the only way to solve them is through resonable exchange of views. As soon as yelling and emotions get involved, I will remove myself from the situation. This is what I did and as a result, she started picking fights in situations were she thought I couldn't leave. Guess what, she thought wrong :yeshrug:and that's what she learned that day.
 

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Me and my girl dont argue much. My high school girlfriends would say stupid shyt like that and i'd just roll my eyes and keep the car moving
 

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Depends on how much i like her OR if she was disrespectful

If I like her i'll tail her

If I don't like her or felt like she said some disrespectful shyt then I would hit the gas and not think twice about it
 

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Because sometimes a lesson has to be taught :yeshrug:As I said, I left my ex in the middle of nowhere in a foreign country and she learned her lesson that day :yeshrug: I told her from the beginning that I don't do stupid fights. We can have disagreements, but the only way to solve them is through resonable exchange of views. As soon as yelling and emotions get involved, I will remove myself from the situation. This is what I did and as a result, she started picking fights in situations were she thought I couldn't leave. Guess what, she thought wrong :yeshrug:and that's what she learned that day.

I get your point but the average bytch acts like a baby and it's better to treat them as such, to save yourself unnecessary hassles. Why do you think bytches are enamored to guys who tell them what they want to hear, the same way you've to tell kids what they want to hear to make them happy?

Anyway, I understand you've to be a meanie sometimes and put your feet on the ground. And trust me I used to be mean/heartless and I was numb to emotions (still a tad numb to it sometimes). It just changed with growth/experience and sometimes, it's always better to take the higher road especially with chicks and make sure everything is alright - than have to deal with some mess that will linger for a long time.

I had some crazy bytch back in the day that almost fukked me up mentally. You know like you just get into a tiff with a chick and tell her to fukk off and do whatever makes her happy. Then go about your business. Then next thing you know, she's trying to cut her wrist and playing that killing herself nonsense. Her mom calling your phone and telling you if anything happens to her, she'll will hold you responsible for it. Disappearing for a few days with phone not going through and her friends not telling you where she's. Beneath the facade and hypermasculinity, you're in solitude worried as fukk, thinking about what's gonna happen to you, if she ends up killing herself. And this happened a few times.

Now, you have to wonder if it's really worth it, when you could've easily handled it a different way and treated her like the baby she's. After getting out of that situation - I had to go peep the game from old heads in their 40s and learn from them. Youthful exuberance can only get you so far and it depends on the chick. But most times, you just have to be the emotionally matured one, by making sure you use the right judgement in defusing things and putting everything in order, at all times.
 

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i'm a real-ass muthafuuuuuuuca - I ain't got time for playyyyyyy (NO PLAYYYY)
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C. If she wants to be let out of the car in a random place, then she's clearly not thinking straight and emotions are getting to her.

Despite whatever argument, i'm still responsible for her safety.
She'll cool off in time. Trust me i've been in this situation many times:mjgrin:
 
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