Stop messing with nikkas girls

[BamdaDon]

They also somehow take pleasure in sucking other nikkas dikk and then going home to kiss and tell how they love their boyfriend/husband. I mean they REALLY LOVE that shyt. I still haven't figured out psychology behind it, some foul shyt.

Yo this shyt happened to me I never will fukk with a nikkas chick again, matter of fact hoes got to go under a full back ground check to even fukk with me nowadays

First time (before I had game)
I remember this one time when I was younger my nikkas girl, tried to hook me up with one of her friends. It was straight up on some blind date type shyt(mistake) so Im like fukk it I'll grab some drinks with the chick. So I pick her up and the ass had a nikka like . She get in the car and im like where you want to go drink? she was like this hood bar. (mistake) you know them types where everybody knows each other? But it was like 8 or 9 oclock so I was like fukk it, couple drinks see if she about that deed. AS SOON AS WE GET THERE she like thats my ex dudes boys (mistake) so I start to ask a couple questions about the relationship she was like it was dead yada yada

Not even 15 or 20 minutes later this nikka walk in straight to us on Im really on some shocked shyt because I thought the bytch was keeping it real. So breh had that tone in his voice but he wasnt on no square up shyt. So we chop it up for second
HIm: how yall meet?
Me: Her girl first time kicking it
Him: I never liked that bytch
so at this point im like exit plan because them nikkas would have probably been like on me just for the fukk of it. So she play the role like we just cool and shyt grabbing some drinks. Im like bytch I was already grabbing ya ass. For whatever reason dude walks away and points at her like "you lucky he cool" and give me a dap and walk over by his nikkas. I give her the and left that bytch sitting at the bar.

Second time was just pathetic how bad the chicks dude played him. I actually felt bad for breh.

 

[kevm3]

Messing with another man's girl is definitely a situation that you don't engage in for numerous reasons. One of the key reasons is just out of respect for other men and knowing how tough it is to build something decent in this day and age. You also do it to avoid adding drama to your own life that you will deserve every minute of if you choose to mess with another man's woman. If you KNOW someone else has a girl and you still are out there spitting game at her, you indeed DO deserve everything that potentially comes your way.

The whole check the woman ideal came from the pimp game where they got together and had a mutual understanding that they were dealing with hoes and that money came first, and even that rule applied only within certain bounds. It didn't give pimps a free pass to holler at hoes any which way and at any time. If she didn't want to mess with the pimp that was hollering and stayed in pocket, and he kept on messing with her and harassing her, that ho's pimp was going to get at the pimp in violation. And even then, those pimps didn't pitty pat play pimp. They didn't halfway deal with the hoe, sneak around with her, take a little money and send her back to her pimp. That was being in violation. They took that 'out of pocket hoe' completely and then served the other pimp 'the news' that he had his ho and those two pimps came to a mutual understanding that those were the rules of the game, and the other pimp willingly let the ho go. Hoes had to clearly be under one pimp's instruction. They weren't out here 'sharing pimps'.

A lot of players adopted that rule and applied it to dealing with hoes and they had a mutual understanding among each other that they all were after sex and that these were indeed hoes (in the player's context of that word) they were dealing with and that they were to be shared. But they also had the rule that you DON'T wife those hoes up and they shared information between who was a ho and who wasn't.

A lot of men have things misconstrued in this day and age and have a somewhat warped sense of reality that they can freely go out there and spit game at different mens' girlfriends and wives, sneaking around with them, and when they are found out, expect no kind of repercussions based upon some kind of 'playa principle' . That is pure fantasy in most cases, and I have more thank an inkling that this modern twist was likely derived from rappers who stay misconstruing things and spreading that twisted understanding via their music. You may occasionally get away with it, but sooner or later, you keep messing around, and it'll come to bite you.

In the 'player game', playas SHARE HOES. They don't share wives and women they are serious with. Also, you have to realize that in whatever context you are dealing with, you have to STAY WITHIN THE RULES OF THAT PARTICULAR GAME. How players, pimps and normal men deal with women are ALL different, just like basketball and football have unique rules. You simply can't choose a rule and principle from one domain and apply it to another area freely. Doesn't work like that. Some of these rappers will have you thinking it's ok to go tackle somebody on the basketball court, with all of this mixing and matching of rules.

If you KNOW a woman has a man and you decide to holler, you willingly accept every possible risk that comes your way, and that man has every right to check both you and her. This applies doubly so for a man's wife. When you mess with a man's wife and escape a hot one, you better count yourself blessed. You aren't only taking his woman off of his hands. You are completely destroying the life he is attempting to build, you're contributing in that man being in divorce court, breaking up his family and all of that. You can say, well she a hoe and she would have done it anyways, but you are the one who chooses to be copartners in her rattish crime, so you'll be the one sharing the hard times.

The proper protocol if you really want to deal with her is you tell her to 'handle her business with her man or husband' and then come back and holler at you... and you don't deal with her prior to her handling her business and cutting ties with him. You make sure things are squared off BEFORE you deal with her. You don't simply go sneaking around with a taken woman and then expect a man to give you some kind of understanding or pass... nor do you just openly holler at his woman in front of him knowing she is taken. You can get away with it for a while, but I'm telling you, sooner or later it will catch up to you. This is why rules were invented... to minimize drama and misunderstandings. You CAN be in a situation where you deal with a taken woman and not know about it, and that falls in the misunderstanding category. This is why you very carefully screen a woman before you deal with her.

 

[Ineedmoney504]

lmao im working at this store right now and fukking a couple dudes girlfriends, i dont give a fukk, nikka gotta take they lick

but last week this chick who just recently started working(bout 3 months) who i been fukking, her boyfriend always just pops up on her out of nowhere, dont call or text her and tell her he bout to come up, so her first week i got a her number and we use to talk at work about all type of shyt and, nikka always use to pop and i would be real close to her and talking all type of nasty shyt, i just leave and let them talk, but he always look at me stupid and mad, said she got tired of fukking one dude, and she been fukking him since she was a virgin (we both 21 now), we almost got caught, we both work in electronics department, we go on break together all the time and i either get head or just fukk her in my car

so last week im like u ready, this is how the shyt went

me - say lets go on break right quick

her - aight let go

i tell my potna to cover for us we gon be like 20 minutes

me - im bout to fukk the shyt out u

her- i need this shyt right

we walking from the back of the store and her boyfriend pops up out from one of the cloths isle

him - who is this nikka

her - what the fukk u talkin bout, we had to go up front to customer service for something for a customer

me - thinking in my head thinking im bout to lose my job having to fukk this nikka up

him - fukk u bytch i cant stand u, i wouldnt put up wit this shyt if i didnt love u, and he just walk off wit that face

me - me looking at her

her - wait till he leave the store and we gon go do this shyt

me -

bytch dont give a fukk, we went out side to the car, she gave me head and went back to work

 

[DaRealness]

Messing with another man's girl is definitely a situation that you don't engage in for numerous reasons. One of the key reasons is just out of respect for other men and knowing how tough it is to build something decent in this day and age. You also do it to avoid adding drama to your own life that you will deserve every minute of if you choose to mess with another man's woman. If you KNOW someone else has a girl and you still are out there spitting game at her, you indeed DO deserve everything that potentially comes your way.

The whole check the woman ideal came from the pimp game where they got together and had a mutual understanding that they were dealing with hoes and that money came first, and even that rule applied only within certain bounds. It didn't give pimps a free pass to holler at hoes any which way and at any time. If she didn't want to mess with the pimp that was hollering and stayed in pocket, and he kept on messing with her and harassing her, that ho's pimp was going to get at the pimp in violation. And even then, those pimps didn't pitty pat play pimp. They didn't halfway deal with the hoe, sneak around with her, take a little money and send her back to her pimp. That was being in violation. They took that 'out of pocket hoe' completely and then served the other pimp 'the news' that he had his ho and those two pimps came to a mutual understanding that those were the rules of the game, and the other pimp willingly let the ho go. Hoes had to clearly be under one pimp's instruction. They weren't out here 'sharing pimps'.

A lot of players adopted that rule and applied it to dealing with hoes and they had a mutual understanding among each other that they all were after sex and that these were indeed hoes (in the player's context of that word) they were dealing with and that they were to be shared. But they also had the rule that you DON'T wife those hoes up and they shared information between who was a ho and who wasn't.

A lot of men have things misconstrued in this day and age and have a somewhat warped sense of reality that they can freely go out there and spit game at different mens' girlfriends and wives, sneaking around with them, and when they are found out, expect no kind of repercussions based upon some kind of 'playa principle' . That is pure fantasy in most cases, and I have more thank an inkling that this modern twist was likely derived from rappers who stay misconstruing things and spreading that twisted understanding via their music. You may occasionally get away with it, but sooner or later, you keep messing around, and it'll come to bite you.

In the 'player game', playas SHARE HOES. They don't share wives and women they are serious with. Also, you have to realize that in whatever context you are dealing with, you have to STAY WITHIN THE RULES OF THAT PARTICULAR GAME. How players, pimps and normal men deal with women are ALL different, just like basketball and football have unique rules. You simply can't choose a rule and principle from one domain and apply it to another area freely. Doesn't work like that. Some of these rappers will have you thinking it's ok to go tackle somebody on the basketball court, with all of this mixing and matching of rules.

If you KNOW a woman has a man and you decide to holler, you willingly accept every possible risk that comes your way, and that man has every right to check both you and her. This applies doubly so for a man's wife. When you mess with a man's wife and escape a hot one, you better count yourself blessed. You aren't only taking his woman off of his hands. You are completely destroying the life he is attempting to build, you're contributing in that man being in divorce court, breaking up his family and all of that. You can say, well she a hoe and she would have done it anyways, but you are the one who chooses to be copartners in her rattish crime, so you'll be the one sharing the hard times.

The proper protocol if you really want to deal with her is you tell her to 'handle her business with her man or husband' and then come back and holler at you... and you don't deal with her prior to her handling her business and cutting ties with him. You make sure things are squared off BEFORE you deal with her. You don't simply go sneaking around with a taken woman and then expect a man to give you some kind of understanding or pass... nor do you just openly holler at his woman in front of him knowing she is taken. You can get away with it for a while, but I'm telling you, sooner or later it will catch up to you. This is why rules were invented... to minimize drama and misunderstandings. You CAN be in a situation where you deal with a taken woman and not know about it, and that falls in the misunderstanding category. This is why you very carefully screen a woman before you deal with her.

This is a good point, but sadly nowadays dudes are just way too immature for this line of thinking. Just look at the "it's just p*ssy brehs" way of thinking of some folk on this very site as an example. When you have dudes who would willingly mess around with their own brother's girlfriend or wife let alone another regular dude's woman, then it shows you the mentality of many people these days. And yeah, these fools who like to big up rappers who talk about they'd fukk another's man's girl need to slap themselves because they are being disrespected themselves and in fact in RZA's book he said that ODB preferred women who already had a man. I can never respect that shyt in a man no matter who he is.

Personally I feel if a guy messes around with another man's woman, you shouldn't even have that dude as a friend - even if you're single - because it shows that he's an untrustworthy person you just don't want in your circle. If he does shyt like that then there's no telling what else he would do later on down the line. That's why although the movie In Too Deep was supposed to show how evil LL's character was when he fukked up his boy on the pool table as far as I'm concerned that was understandable because you got lifelong friends who would do that shyt at the drop of a hat and like he said "of all the bytches in the world you gonna try and mess with my baby's moms?" So it was harsh but dude deserved that. Most of us live in environments where there are more women to men but you wanna take another's man wife?

And as for these whores, their stupid ass girlfriends need to cut them off too instead of cosigning that bullshyt behaviour, because what do they think is gonna happen when that same chick in their circle finds one of their men attractive?

 

[Cat piss martini]

another day at the office..
*phone rings*

me:hello
him:yeah nikka i know where you sleep
me:who this
him:so you fukked my bytch
me: *exhale*and instead of the sounds of her screams on the
other end of this bytch I got yo hoe ass damn near whispering in my ear.
him:I'll see out nikka
me:i stand out like OJ at a klan rally....you will know me when you
see me....i'll be the nikka that bytch winking at with that black eye.

*click*

 

[kevm3]

This is a good point, but sadly nowadays dudes are just way too immature for this line of thinking. Just look at the "it's just p*ssy brehs" way of thinking of some folk on this very site as an example. When you have dudes who would willingly mess around with their own brother's girlfriend or wife let alone another regular dude's woman, then it shows you the mentality of many people these days. And yeah, these fools who like to big up rappers who talk about they'd fukk another's man's girl need to slap themselves because they are being disrespected themselves and in fact in RZA's book he said that ODB preferred women who already had a man. I can never respect that shyt in a man no matter who he is.

Personally I feel if a guy messes around with another man's woman, you shouldn't even have that dude as a friend - even if you're single - because it shows that he's an untrustworthy person you just don't want in your circle. If he does shyt like that then there's no telling what else he would do later on down the line. That's why although the movie In Too Deep was supposed to show how evil LL's character was when he fukked up his boy on the pool table as far as I'm concerned that was understandable because you got lifelong friends who would do that shyt at the drop of a hat and like he said "of all the bytches in the world you gonna try and mess with my baby's moms?" So it was harsh but dude deserved that. Most of us live in environments where there are more women to men but you wanna take another's man wife?

And as for these whores, their stupid ass girlfriends need to cut them off too instead of cosigning that bullshyt behaviour, because what do they think is gonna happen when that same chick in their circle finds one of their men attractive?

Them those same guys that will try to sleep with your sisters, your mom, your wife, etc., and then write it off as it's all the woman's fault. It takes two to tango, and if you are a co-conspirator, you are just as guilty, even if she was the 'mastermind.' That 'it's all her fault' is the type of game you run on hoes, not on no grown man.

I agree that you shouldn't keep that type of dude around as a friend. If it's "only coochie" and holds little importance to this cat, that just shows how much he values your friendship if he can't turn down something unimportant and readily available to keep dust out of the air between you and him. That's the type of dude that he comes up on hard times and you let him stay with you and he'll be rapping to your wife while you're at work or he'll be spitting game at your sister when you're not around.

 

[Metta World Movement]

@ the women from these stories...and you know they knew that their men were simps for them and really loved them, yet they did dirt anyway

Threads like this make me wonder what's the point of marrying a chick or even getting in a serious relationship with one....so many of them seem to cheat and as if that's not bad enough, unlike men they'll lie about it with ease and even find a way to justify/flip it when they're caught, to keep from viewing themselves as the bad guy (or to keep others from viewing them that way)

I think I'm considering just being Quagmire status for the rest of my life; sleep with a bunch of chicks who I'm not really attached to, and even if they slept with someone else I could be like .....only problem (besides STD risk) is I wanna have kids, and I want their mother to be a good parent who I can be cool with and not have any drama with. I also want my kids to live with me so I can be with them 24/7, and chances are that won't happen unless the mother's living with me. So it's either live with wifey and our kids, or have some weird, open-marriage 'Sister Sister' setup with some broad who's a good mother to our kids, but who also goes out with other brehs while I date other chicks

I'll be honest....I'm afraid of getting hurt by the ether of getting cheated on (especially if it happens after years of being together). I can't imagine how I'd react if I had a wifey and I found out she decided to give it up to Tyrone...ESPECIALLY with dudes like y'all out there. Ya'll don't even feel an ounce of guilt for intruding on the other man's setup because as far as y'all are concerned, she gets all blame since nothing would have happened if she didn't throw it at you

Are there ANY faithful women out there? Like, LEGIT faithful? Not faithful in the "if he don't know about it, then it's not cheating" sense?

Sometimes I feel like I'm literally the only person on the planet who actually wants to be in a lifelong relationship and LEGITIMATELY never cheat. But what's the point of being that type of good dude, when you can't help but think all women are capable of cheating?

 

[Based Lord Zedd]

If another dude's girl approaches me I'm smashing. Won't feel bad about it, I've done it before and will likely do so again.

I look at it this way:

-I won't deliberately go after a girl if she's taken. She'd have to go out of her way.

-If she's going out of her way to come onto me their relationship is already in trouble. If it isn't me it'll be the next. I'm not doing her dude any favors by not smashing. Probably doing him a favor if he catches her.

-If a girl cheats on me I'm not directing any of the anger at the guy. I'll just eat the loss and get rid of the girl.

Yeah there's the risk of getting in bad situations but that risk is always there. You could get into it with a girl's jealous ex.

 

[kevm3]

@ the women from these stories...and you know they knew that their men were simps for them and really loved them, yet they did dirt anyway

Threads like this make me wonder what's the point of marrying a chick or even getting in a serious relationship with one....so many of them seem to cheat and as if that's not bad enough, unlike men they'll lie about it with ease and even find a way to justify/flip it when they're caught, to keep from viewing themselves as the bad guy (or to keep others from viewing them that way)

I think I'm considering just being Quagmire status for the rest of my life; sleep with a bunch of chicks who I'm not really attached to, and even if they slept with someone else I could be like .....only problem (besides STD risk) is I wanna have kids, and I want their mother to be a good parent who I can be cool with and not have any drama with. I also want my kids to live with me so I can be with them 24/7, and chances are that won't happen unless the mother's living with me. So it's either live with wifey and our kids, or have some weird, open-marriage 'Sister Sister' setup with some broad who's a good mother to our kids, but who also goes out with other brehs while I date other chicks

I'll be honest....I'm afraid of getting hurt by the ether of getting cheated on (especially if it happens after years of being together). I can't imagine how I'd react if I had a wifey and I found out she decided to give it up to Tyrone...ESPECIALLY with dudes like y'all out there. Ya'll don't even feel an ounce of guilt for intruding on the other man's setup because as far as y'all are concerned, she gets all blame since nothing would have happened if she didn't throw it at you

Are there ANY faithful women out there? Like, LEGIT faithful? Not faithful in the "if he don't know about it, then it's not cheating" sense?

Sometimes I feel like I'm literally the only person on the planet who actually wants to be in a lifelong relationship and LEGITIMATELY never cheat. But what's the point of being that type of good dude, when you can't help but think all women are capable of cheating?

They are out there, but it's fairly rare given the moral climate we have today. That's why I reiterate that if you have a solid, moral woman, do not loser her/cheat on her, etc.

 

[AllHolosEve]

i only did this wit my exes, i aint never get new girls that had dudes already, lucky i guess!!!

 

[Henryflo1]

Classic skit.

 

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

Met a milfer in the bar... she ain't have a ring on and we talked all night then got a room. I was far from home and I should have figured something was up if we weren't going back to hers...

So we fukk a few times then she starts getting nervous about the time and I'm like

She had paid for the room so I figured I would beat it up into the morn... She finally gets up n says well I gotta go home to my HUSBAND but u can stay if u want.

Me and my boy hit up that same bar a few weeks later and she in there doing her thing again

She came to say what up acting she looking for round 2. I just backed away... ain't want none of that drama.

 

[YBE]

this thread is classic

i like when nikkas can chop it up without the trolling

 

[No Homo]

And let's not act like brehs women won't lie and play the victim


"it's just some guy he asked for my number and been botheringe ever since"

Starts to cry
"I didn't want to do it but he wouldn't listen when I said no"

Exactly. These broads will say anything to hold themselves not accountable for their actions and watch the drama unfold and play victim. Its a shame.

but its sad how society promotes this disgusting behavior. I noticed that with these new rappers in every song its "fukked yo bytch", the famous "oh thats yo girl", etc. Since when did that shyt become cool? Its in just about every song now a days.

 

[Carolina Slim]

Its a conspiracy, I tell ya :LAFF:

Trying to make simps kill each other off.

I met this thick ass MILF chick on a subway line and she was giving me the grin and the mean stare. She even commented on my foot size and how she liked the way I rocked my clothes. We exchanged #s and met up at her house. I grabbed her ass, done foreplay, and nearly fukked until she mentioned that she has a crazy emotional, simp husband that travels out of town often. Crazy thing is that she never wore a wedding ring nor had a picture of her husband in her house.

So imagine me smashing and later finding out that her simp ass husband got a gun (which he did) to do me in....I smarten up and realize that not all bad ass hoes are worth it. Shyt still scare me today.

The husband sounds like this dude from back in the day in NY:

A once-prominent Dominican businessman testified today that he fatally shot the woman he loved in a state of shock and confusion after he went to her house and learned that she was to marry another man hours later.

Taking the witness stand in his murder trial here in State Superior Court, the businessman, Agustin Garcia, also told jurors that he and the woman, Gladys Ricart, had sex several times in the week before the shooting on Sept. 26, 1999, at her house in Ridgefield, N.J. He said they had even been together at his house in nearby North Bergen in the early morning hours of her wedding day.

''We started massaging each other, romancing, doing what people who love each other do,'' Mr. Garcia, 49, said of his encounter that morning with Ms. Ricart, 39. ''It was true love.''

The case has attracted widespread attention because of the killer's prominence in Dominican circles, as well as for the shocking scene of Ms. Ricart's shooting, in her wedding gown in plain view of her bridesmaids, an act caught on a home video that was shown to the jury two weeks ago.

Mr. Garcia does not dispute that he shot Ms. Ricart, only the prosecution's contention that he had intended to. He faces life in prison without parole for at least 30 years if convicted of murder. Prosecutors say the killing was done deliberately to keep her from becoming another man's bride.

Bride's Killer, Taking Stand, Says He Fired Gun in Shock - NYTimes.com