Mine did. Sent my lighter skinned aunt to camp to learn to play the violin and sent moms to Brooklyn to as slave labor in a boarding house filled with old dying ppl.
Aunt is passing as creole; mom was a panther and is outside everyday at 7pm giving out ppe at our expense.
She can still learn to play violin without losing herself. Black people shouldn't limit themselves/expeirences at the expense of trying to 'stay black'. If learning golf prevents a truly concious person from grounding themself they have a weak will or weak support or both.