SPIN: Yall know the first "date" doesn't have to be crazy right?

[Afro]

- Her place or my place

Bold first place

 

[OnlyOneBoss]

I’ve never had the classic “dinner date” first date and I don’t plan too


shyt just seem kinda lame/boring to me, I’m not taking a shorty on a date I myself won’t even enjoy and for what? For her to take a pic of the food for her IG story, a mostly surface level conversation, and the chance at some buns?


Doing an activity together >>>>

 

[Ya Sinning Mane]

Dating ain’t never help nobody get p*ssy faster.

y’all crazy wasting your time doing that much

if she dig u your gonna fawk
Y’all out here wifing shyt or something ?
Nothing wrong wit that

 

[the bossman]

I just met a chick at a smoothie spot in the middle of the day and had the best first date I think ever really. We just sat outside and talked for hours and it was better than every time I took a bytch out to eat

That's how shyt work when you and ol girl feelin each other and got that natural chemistry

 

[Shadow King]

It doesn't, but you're also losing before starting by not being elaborate. The volume shooting many of y'all seem necessary is enough of a grind for some then brehs gotta still deal with more filtering.

 

[Arcavian]

Dating right now for me is like having the same goddamn conversation with a different face

Im on break

 

[Ahadi]

Yupp

- Pizza
- Frozen Yogurt
- Coffee shop
- Her place or my place
- The park
- The museum

If they don't like those options its automatic number delete

Art Gallery

 

[KidJSoul]

Still pointless sometimes

What if she doesn't bother engaging in conversation, just gonnna eat food? What if she's still fukking someone else since we're not exclusive? What she wants another date just for us to fukk and the sex is wack?

 

[Afro]

Still pointless sometimes

What if she doesn't bother engaging in conversation, just gonnna eat food? What if she's still fukking someone else since we're not exclusive? What she wants another date just for us to fukk and the sex is wack?

That is you being anxious about a future you haven't seen yet.

Next chick may surprise you

 

[The Fade]

nikkas only make first dates crazy when they want to show off to twitter to stunt on other nikkas

 

[Abstract83]

Its a numbers game before and after the numbers, that is a guarantee

Just make sure you are enjoying the process. If not, it's time to take a break so you don't burn yourself out.

Engaging in different personalities can be tiring for some.

Yea true. It definitely is a numbers game. Im learning so much about women these days. If u make one simple mishap u may not hear from them again. I was frustrated at one point then I took a break. I just started making a roster cause u can't focus on just one regardless of how good the chemistry is. They'll get bored or you'll eventually get bored and drop out. I had 3 this weekend. Might hang on to 2 of them. I got another one im going out with again this weekend. And talking to multiples. Its like a 2nd job.