SPIN: Yall know the first "date" doesn't have to be crazy right?

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I usually do something after work (NOT on the weekends!) and its super casual.

I need to know you are worth investing in and vice versa.

I've saved plenty of money just going to a park or a cafe to shoot the shyt :ehh:

Dinner comes if we dig each other :yeshrug:

Won't mind paying if you have a better idea of her behavior :ehh:

Now if she goes Park :hubie:


On to the next, it's the online meat market for a reason :mjgrin:

I gotta see you in natural lighting first :ufdup::lupe:

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I jumped back into dating recently. I messed up by taking them out to dinner. But I've learned to just take them out for a pizza or coffee shop. Or even a bar to grab a drink. The park is cool but it's getting cold soon. I've been on so many dates in the past 3 months. Im almost becoming numb to it. Looking for a relationship is gonna take sometime.
 

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I jumped back into dating recently. I messed up by taking them out to dinner. But I've learned to just take them out for a pizza or coffee shop. Or even a bar to grab a drink. The park is cool but it's getting cold soon. I've been on so many dates in the past 3 months. Im almost becoming numb to it. Looking for a relationship is gonna take sometime.

Its a numbers game before and after the numbers, that is a guarantee :wow:

Just make sure you are enjoying the process. If not, it's time to take a break so you don't burn yourself out.

Engaging in different personalities can be tiring for some.
 

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I just met a chick at a smoothie spot in the middle of the day and had the best first date I think ever really. We just sat outside and talked for hours and it was better than every time I took a bytch out to eat

Bro, my best dates were when there was no expectations, just a nice vibe where ever :wow:
 

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Had a girl straight up get overly mad at me because we went out on a Friday and didn't want to go out again on that Sunday. Cut her loose that same day. Chick blew me up for 2 weeks and got at least 5 angry voicemails and 10+ text messages until I had to text her from another number telling her I was my girlfriend :russ:
 

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My last first date was walking up Stone Mountain. We walked around Piedmont park for the second date, then found a nice Resturant to chill at during the night time. Third date was my house where we both cooked…rawpulloutsometimesifIcanrememberto
 
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