SPIN: Is It Acceptable For Men To Be Insecure?

RaspberryFitted

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how you mean?
A man’s height is pretty much fair game to clown on. Some jokes are harmless while others try to make you less of a man (the latter I’ve only seen on social media) a woman’s weight though? :whoa: I remember when I was little, even asking a woman’s age was something you don’t do.

Both parties have every right to feel insecure about their appearance.. but the feature that’s pre-determined is more accepting to rag on than something that could be changed in less than a year.

I guess it ties back to what Crude said above.
 

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No one is perfect

Everyone has insecurities, and the people who throw that word around the most often have the most insecurities

if someone mentions that your insecure, it’s usually gaslighting/manipulation. I call people insecure in arguements to throw them off & it works. It’s not like I’m some special perfect snowflake that’s never taken an L. Just keep that in mind next time you hear that word being thrown around.

When insecurities are brought up it’s smart to downplay or make light of them, that way no one holds power over you.That’s the best thing you can do. Make your insecurities into a strength.
 
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