SPIN: How do I Pick a Non-Cheating Spouse?

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Man, woman, and child

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Op those people you quoted are fuk boys along with a fuk girl. There is no way to tell but that is the risk you take unfortunately. You participate or get out the game.
 

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Be her friend first. Shes more likely to be more of herself with you. If you are her soundboard then you'll get a better idea of who she is psychologically.

That's what worked for me. Me and my wife were friends for like 4 years before we got involved.

Were you really friends or waiting until the other became available?
 

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Find a virgin or a woman with a low body count that values loyalty, honesty and cares about being the best they can be in a relationship. Also make sure that you only accept women that are very into you and see you as special. A lot of men date women that they aren't compatible with and that can lead to a loss of interest.
 

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You have to be the masculine representation of what you want in the feminine. You gotta do your research. Ask her questions about her sexual history, if she experienced any sexual abuse, her past relationship history, how she views sex, infidelity, her parents relationship, her siblings, does she watch porn? What type of porn does she watch?

Does she have high self-esteem, a high sense of value? Ask her friends, family, people about her. Y'all gotta communicate, and talk a lot. If she's not willing to talk about her sexual past then she may not be the right partner to marry. You also need to be open and honest about these things about you too.
 

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If you have to play a game to get a girl, then you will have to play games to keep her. If you have to get a girl attracted to you by superficial means, then you will have to keep up with the superficial in order to keep her. If you have to pretend or put on an act to get a girl, then you will have to stay in character to keep her...

Like attracts Like... how you get them is a preview of how you'd lose them...

Be yourself... as yourself... with whatever you have & you will attract a girl who is the same... & you'll never have to worry about losing her because you won't have to be anybody but yourself. Know however, that if you have to "hunt" for a woman then know that whatever weapon was equipped to capture her will have to be the same weapon you need to keep her...

The Coli would have you believe that all women are just sex crazed superficial gold diggers but there are so many women who really aren't... so many.
 

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This is gonna sound clichéd, but the very, very, very BEST indicator of a reliable spouse is her parents relationship. If the parents cheated on each other on some vindictive tip then she's wired to see that as a natural response to arguments. Also, it's extremely important to vet the girl's mother and ask yourself if you would wife someone like her moms, a lot of these moms don't know any better WILL pass down their trifling ass values onto their daughters with the best of intentions, so it isn't enough that her mom loves her, she could still possibly be ain't shyt.
 
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