SPIN: Can you respect a Black man who lost his virginity to a white woman?

[timeless]

I’m rockin’ wit you, OP…

These cats like to act obtuse about this shyt…


Always on that “live-and-let-livehow-does-it-affect-you/me?” type ish.

“It ain’t that serious!”. Yeah, I suppose nothing really is anymore. One’s pursuit of money and happiness is all that matters in this day and age so go ahead and get it by any means.

Now, I’ve lusted after women of different phenotypes but that’s cuz I was a confused mixed-race boy/teen raised by a single mother w/ no community of my own…

Today, I’m a 32-year-old virgin b/c it has taken me sometime to clarify my feelings about sex, identity and racial dynamics. I’ve come to realize (always known actually) that there’s symbolism, meaning and essence associated with intercourse.

I’m a tribal person at heart w/o a group. I’d feel some type of way if I were rooted in a solid racial identity and afforded some semblance of an ethnic community thinking I’m going to build/preserve with my kinfolk but then see those same “brothers” and “sisters” sleep with outsiders who cannot relate to and don’t even respect us…

Y’all call it “dikk policing” but I can’t help but feel like it’s just a primal and prudent emotion/reaction that pensive individuals are predisposed to…

At the heart of it, black people and white people have a love/hate relationship. Straight codependency.

 

[Shadow King]

Lol this. No cool, goodlooking, male with a social life would care about this.

I'm 0.5 of the 3 and still don't give a damn

 

[Paper Boi]

yall need to stop dikk watching


especially young people

 

[Shadow King]

I’m rockin’ wit you, OP…

These cats like to act obtuse about this shyt…


Always on that “live-and-let-livehow-does-it-affect-you/me?” type ish.

“It ain’t that serious!”. Yeah, I suppose nothing really is anymore. One’s pursuit of money and happiness is all that matters in this day and age so go ahead and get it by any means.

Now, I’ve lusted after women of different phenotypes but that’s cuz I was a confused mixed-race boy/teen raised by a single mother w/ no community of my own…

Today, I’m a 32-year-old virgin b/c it has taken me sometime to clarify my feelings about sex, identity and racial dynamics. I’ve come to realize (always known actually) that there’s symbolism, meaning and essence associated with intercourse.

I’m a tribal person at heart w/o a group. I’d feel some type of way if I were rooted in a solid racial identity and afforded some semblance of an ethnic community thinking I’m going to build/preserve with my kinfolk but then see those same “brothers” and “sisters” sleep with outsiders who cannot relate to and don’t even respect us…

Y’all call it “dikk policing” but I can’t help but feel like it’s just a primal and prudent emotion/reaction that pensive individuals are predisposed to…

No.

 

[SheWantTheD]

Y’all nikkas weird

 

[R.E.N. Spells Ren]

@R.E.N. Spells Ren

I have a LOT of people on ignore, but before I added them to the list there were regular threads up about random or celeb women who dated white men. Dudes were repeating YTer slavery/Klan inspired terms for these women. Does that still go on here?
If so, the "why do you care? / d*ck watching" comments here would be deflections.

Thread worthy when random obscure woman on social media does/says it, but not when a member does it?

Exactly. But this is just a bunch of hit dogs hollering is all.