Something I've noticed about interracial relationships.

[Koba St]

Has anyone realised its always the black person, male or female that has to prove him/herself to the non black person's family? Not just white but Asian, Mexican etc. He could be a neurosurgeon and she could be a Walmart worker but he still has to worry about whether her parents will accept him, while she never worries about the black partner's family's opinion.

It's like its assumed the black family will automatically accept them regardless and To be honest they're probably right. I don't know any black family that disowned a member for marrying a non black. But the opposite is numerous.

 

[iBrowse]

 

[Mowgli]

Has this been your experience or something you just noticed as a fly on the wall in other peoples interracial relationships?

 

[Jean Jacket]

It's called white supremacy.

 

[lowkey0z]

 

[Gravity]

The approval rate for interracial relationships amongst blacks is like 95% despite all of the anti-black racism from all other non blacks This why I go hard at people who say words like "c00n" and "bedwench" are thrown around too much. They're not thrown around enough. We're a community full of wannabe c00ns and bedwenches.

 

[Koba St]

Has this been your experience or something you just noticed as a fly on the wall in other peoples interracial relationships?

My brother's wife is white and people always ask us if her family is cool with it but no one ever asks if we're cool with it. Even though we are, the idea that we could be against it is unthinkable. Like we should be happy or some shyt

 

[wickedsm]

If that's the situation then sadly I can only fault the black partner for even entertaining that bullshyt if it's above and beyond the usual "I want my child to have a good partner" type things since that's entirely reasonable.

 

[NoGutsNoGLory]

The approval rate for interracial relationships amongst blacks is like 95% despite all of the anti-black racism from all other non blacks This why I go hard at people who say words like "c00n" and "bedwench" are thrown around too much. They're not thrown around enough. We're a community full of wannabe c00ns and bedwenches.

Its because black genetics overpower the other genetics, not sure why. I wonder if there would be racism if its a 50/50 in terms of how offspring will look. The other races are worried about going extinct which is insane, the amount of mixing that would have to occur would be off the charts.

 

[Mowgli]

My brother's wife is white and people always ask us if her family is cool with it but no one ever asks if we're cool with it. Even though we are, the idea that we could be against it is unthinkable. Like we should be happy or some shyt

Whos the last 2 people to ask that question


I guess people just know cacs are inherently racist and black people are not, but current culture of the planet says that we should be.

 

[NotAnFBIagent]

According to half the coli they wouldn't approve of their kids bringing home someone white but in real life its not usually that much opposition
Such is life I guess

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

Has anyone realised its always the black person, male or female that has to prove him/herself to the non black person's family?

No, in fact in my experience it's been the opposite. How many of these relationships have you been in?

 

[Gravity]

Its because black genetics overpower the other genetics, not sure why. I wonder if there would be racism if its a 50/50 in terms of how offspring will look. The other races are worried about going extinct which is insane, the amount of mixing that would have to occur would be off the charts.

Regardless of the reasoning for non blacks being racist against blacks, they're racist against blacks. The fact that blacks knowing this still seek out non blacks and are approving or indifferent to those who do is indicative of how much self hate is ingrained in blacks. If you have to worry about a person's family accepting you because you're black then that person and their family isn't for you. I went through this a few times when I was out here running around and it's the reason I took a stand against IR. I'd say that rarely are non blacks fully accepting of their kids/family dating/marrying a black person.

 

[CinnaSlim]

My brother married a white girl and she does have to prove herself a bit. My mom was like she's not family until there's a ring on her finger. But she turned out to be really cool in her own way and my brother is happy which is what's important.

 

[BigL187]