Someone just told me guys can't have girls as friends

[King P]

They can't.

Cmon, let's keep it 100. What male sees an attractive female and says "You know, I'd really like to be her friend"?

Go ahead, I'll wait

 

[Poitier]

Proximity + Similarity = Attraction

With enough time...

 

[Medio]

any female friends i have are because i used to be a bytch

i can't really imagine like really having a female friend, like call her to go out and see a movie or something without any feelings, that's weird, i don't know

 

[godkiller]

any female friends i have are because i used to be a bytch

i can't really imagine like really having a female friend, like call her to go out and see a movie or something without any feelings, that's weird, i don't know

Two months ago I went out with a lesbian and started developing feelings on the first day. She wasn't even my type, body or appearance wise, but the feelings reared themselves nevertheless. She just said she wanted to be "friends" but I wasn't having any of that and I haven't called her since. I can't be legitimately friends with a female.

 

[The Mad Titan]

man if I had a bad female friend that was as cool as my nikka's and cute, and she felt the same about me.... ain't no way we just going to be friends.

If one person isn't really all that attracted to the other, then meh maybe. if you grew up like bro and sister then maybe....even then




men and women can't just be friends, its a reason that when you're married you can't have friends of the opposite sex. Can you imagine a dude trying to tell his wife he at his friends place and they just sitting around talk and playing xbox at around 11:30pm




A friend is not a associate that you kinda sometime hang out with and talk to at work or see out here and there...

I hang out with my dudes all the time, when done travelled together, got drunk together, shared hotel rooms and just chilled to the earlier morning.... If I had one bad female friend the 1st time we travelled out of state and had to share a hotel room....

 

[Poitier]

The people in here saying yes gone have a wife with the "gay boyfriend" smashing something serious.

 

[godkiller]

Only those who have simped know how pathetic and emasculating simping truly is. The friend zone is cold like the rift between dimensions.

 

[AkaDemiK]

Proximity + Similarity = Attraction

With enough time...

chuuuch!

 

[BlvdBrawler]

that sounds amazing though

So what's it gonna be?

Singapore?

Tahiti?

Venice?

Say the word and the world is yours.

 

[Spoonz]

I have a lot of female friends and yes I smash regularly. But this is the case with my male friends as well most of the time anyway

 

[Malta]

So... either opposite-sex friends have to be ugly, or they want to smash if you aren't ugly; there is no inbetween.

Is that the gist of this thread?

Yes.............

 

[innocentdevil]

So what's it gonna be?
Singapore?

Tahiti?

Venice?

Say the word and the world is yours.

 

[The_Sheff]

They can't.

Cmon, let's keep it 100. What male sees an attractive female and says "You know, I'd really like to be her friend"?

Go ahead, I'll wait

So does the initial attraction mean you can never move to a different level if nothing comes of it?

Ive dated chicks and it didnt work on on some we just werent right for each other shyt but we remained cool. Now im engaged, those chicks have husbands, and we hang out socially all the time. One of them is damn near my fiance's best friend.

 

[Spoonz]

I think its now clear to me that known of you have any type of friends offline

 

[The Mad Titan]

So does the initial attraction mean you can never move to a different level if nothing comes of it?

Ive dated chicks and it didnt work on on some we just werent right for each other shyt but we remained cool. Now im engaged, those chicks have husbands, and we hang out socially all the time. One of them is damn near my fiance's best friend.

Would you go over to chill with just you and the chick you just dated alone? After dark, or just hit up the bar the two of you maybe watch some movies at her place and drink and hang out? I can only imagine my girl calling me and hearing my "friend girl" laughing out loud in the background clearly drunk and being ok with it.



Socially being "friends" and actually being like good friends are two different things, I can socially be friends with alot of chicks... but when it comes down to doing stuff that friends do that they enjoy doing with one another mixing a dude and a chick together is a disaster in the making.