R.E.N. Spells Ren
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Wait a second, breh, then why are you arguing with me? I said I'm cool with polygamy as long as there's no tax or governmental benefits.
Without those benefits, what's the difference between cohabitation and marriage?
Sohh legalising polygamy is being considered but only for the wealthy
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Without those benefits, what's the difference between cohabitation and marriage?
I hear what you are saying...
but he would just come home to fights EVERYDAY ........ and in reality NO woman wants to think she is 2nd or 3rd ..... its easier to keep in separate ...
and I'm not cool with polygamy under any circumstance.
I don't support it because of what happens to everyone else.
This has less of what it means to me, than what it means to society at large.
You're being selfish.
You are average. Everyone else you know is average.
You all will be crushed by polygamist pressures and I know barely any of you even make enough money to overcome the swagger deficit to get more than one spouse.
The reality is, you all aren't being realistic.
And fewer and fewer people are valuing it. More and more people cohabitating. If what you are saying in regards to the impact of legalized polygamy were true then we would already see people practicing it in an illegal way...the same way people do everything else that they want that is illegal. I'm not gonna keep repeating myself. I'ma need you to address this point with an actual basis that is grounded in what actually happens here in modern day America, not in other countries or in the past.
Does he love one more than the others? Does the most loved wife happen to be the 1st wife? Or did he stop caring for all of them?
Is there jealousy among the children?
you know what, Ive never actually asked....
the crazy thing is, he has a sidepiece as well as some chick in Canada ...... his oldest kid is 26 , youngest is 5 .... his kids seem to get along, but Im on the outside looking in.... you never know what really goes on in a mans house ....
my Mom just used to say he was a ho .....
dude just likes women .... too much
people are getting married later. They're still getting married and marriage is still a thing.
Trends in marriage don't reflect the human capital economics of marriage.
BIG difference.
Rockstar Mom
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That is actually how polygamy works, and why it it WONT work for nikkas
nikkas only worried about getting their dikk wet. In a true polygamy situation, NONE of the wives work. The husband takes care of them ALL. Pays all the rent and bills. And when he does for 1 wife, he has to do for them all. They all stay home and take care of the kids. And no, none of these wives are bisexuals and having orgies with you every night.
fukk I look like working, paying bills AND sharing my husband? Yes, this will only work for the wealthy. The rest of y'all will just produce more kids that will grow up on WIC and Welfare.
*Even in the poor countries, the husband is still taking care of all the wives*
nikkas only worried about getting their dikk wet. In a true polygamy situation, NONE of the wives work. The husband takes care of them ALL. Pays all the rent and bills. And when he does for 1 wife, he has to do for them all. They all stay home and take care of the kids. And no, none of these wives are bisexuals and having orgies with you every night.
fukk I look like working, paying bills AND sharing my husband? Yes, this will only work for the wealthy. The rest of y'all will just produce more kids that will grow up on WIC and Welfare. *Even in the poor countries, the husband is still taking care of all the wives*
R.E.N. Spells Ren
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You typed all that and didn't answer the question.
Without tax and other governmental benefits, what's the difference between cohabitation with multiple women versus marrying multiple women?
FeloniousMonk
Dont mind me..Im a azzhole
Put it like this.
Im all for polygamy if the man can afford it and and has genuine interests in maintaining a multiple wife household, and the woman understands the dynamics and will contribute..
Not
Rich men wifing more than one female who's with it...
A majority of people really dont know what polygamy is or represents....
Most men just thinking having hella wives because they got loot...and thats not the entirety of it..
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I also agree that men have been sold a dream with this polygamy shyt. If it did become legal, trust me no women will be running to share an "average" husband. If you're not a baller, you'll have the standard ONE wife.
Still not getting married like they did in the past. The overwhelming majority of people get married because of romantic ideals...not economics. Most women don't find being one of many to be very romantic.
FeloniousMonk
Dont mind me..Im a azzhole
All of them are supposed to #1..they just may not be the 1st.
But they knew what it was when they got involved and crossed that line..
Not to mention- How is he treating them individually and what is he telling them in private?
So coming home to fights has more in who he chose and what precedents he set being head of the household..
Y'all really arguing over something that OP made up and will never happen here
Some of the logic in here was so dumb it was amusing so bravo and thanks for the laughs
a lot of mormons are polygamous ...... but like i said having seen it up close first hand I personally would never want it ..... its a constant balancing act
All of them are supposed to #1..they just may not be the 1st.
But they knew what it was when they got involved and crossed that line..
Not to mention- How is he treating them individually and what is he telling them in private?
So coming home to fights has more in who he chose and what precedents he set being head of the household..
Its easier to convince a woman shes number one when you are alone with her, when she doesnt have anything to compare it to ......