Heafcliffe
Hope there's puddin' in the clink...
Friends and I were talking about a real situation he is going thru. 8 years ago, his pops died and he leaned on his stepmother (who raised him since he was 4; he is 32 now) and everything was cool. He actually considered her to be his mother. Even getting her name tatooed on his body. As of late, he noticed some changes:
-his stepmother (S/M) rarely contacts despite him calling/leaving vcmls,
-when he visits her, she has a majority pics framed of her biological daughters
-S/M hides behind her daughters; they relay messages to him rather than the S/M calling and letting him know directly
-he is getting married (like myself) at the end of the year and S/M has not attended any of the "wedding" gatherings but has plenty of time to hang with the daughters and her friends
-he is even thinking of removing her from his wedding & have his real mom (whose relationship has improved over the last decade) in it
I think that's it for the most part. So he has been seeing these changes, confronted her on it many times to get to the problem's core so he could just to spend time with her. The S/M said she needs to "get better" with her communication, but still no changes. He has began to cut off contact (i.e. doesn't invite to anything of his, delete her from FB and gchat as a friend, keeps any convos polite but short and KIM, etc.)
What should I tell this dude because, looking at him, you can tell this bothers him? Any of my brehs and brehettes been in this situation?
-his stepmother (S/M) rarely contacts despite him calling/leaving vcmls,
-when he visits her, she has a majority pics framed of her biological daughters
-S/M hides behind her daughters; they relay messages to him rather than the S/M calling and letting him know directly
-he is getting married (like myself) at the end of the year and S/M has not attended any of the "wedding" gatherings but has plenty of time to hang with the daughters and her friends
-he is even thinking of removing her from his wedding & have his real mom (whose relationship has improved over the last decade) in it
I think that's it for the most part. So he has been seeing these changes, confronted her on it many times to get to the problem's core so he could just to spend time with her. The S/M said she needs to "get better" with her communication, but still no changes. He has began to cut off contact (i.e. doesn't invite to anything of his, delete her from FB and gchat as a friend, keeps any convos polite but short and KIM, etc.)
What should I tell this dude because, looking at him, you can tell this bothers him? Any of my brehs and brehettes been in this situation?