So, why are you single?

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this.

I can't find a confident secure woman for the life of me. It seems almost every single woman out there is insecure. I start a relationship and right off the bat I'm labeled a player, without any proof or indication. I can be a little too 'chill' and it will get misinterpreted as me being distant or focused on other women. :wtf:
no trick, some guys aren't drama kings, or need to yell or direct a girl everyday, some of us ARE actually laid back and 'easy' to deal with. :snoop:

Man all a girl has to do is feed me and give me sex at night, and I'm pretty much bagged. I wont stray far, and for the most part if I get sex before I go out, I prolly wont even look at girls. :pachaha:

Girls seriously think it's more complex than that, but no, men are actually quite easy to please, it's their own minds that make it more complex than it is. They're so damn emotional.

-end rant.

I can seriously relate to this :whew: This whole post is on point lol... Im not a food and sex only type of guy though I would need a little more than that but not much more :manny:
 
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You live in the best place for women. Where do you go out cause in NYC, aint no excuses?

I just keep it in Brooklyn. I hang out at Bossanova Civic Club on Myrtle cause it's a couple of blocks away from my apartment and all my friends are there and I know all the bartenders and security. When I go out in the city, I usually just hang out at Max Fish, Cakeshop, or Iggys on Ludlow. Yes, there are so many good looking women out here...but everytime I'm talking to them and they ask me "what do you do for a living" it's always the moment where I just get:huhldup:cause New York women are a different breed in my opinion. They're judging you on what you wear, how you wear it, where you work, what type of money you're making...which makes me kind of self-conscious because I'm not where I'd like to be professionally and financially.

I will be honest though, I've had better luck with women in New York than in Pittsburgh (my hometown). There are more women here willing to give men hat have their shyt together and have something going on for themselves a chance. Pittsburgh women are conceited princesses that really have no reason to be. The majority of them have really bad tastes and love meatheads and preppy guys. Also, I feel like a dude can't even ask a Pittsburgh woman for the time without her saying "I HAVE A BOYFRIEND" the first chance she can/
 

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I just keep it in Brooklyn. I hang out at Bossanova Civic Club on Myrtle cause it's a couple of blocks away from my apartment and all my friends are there and I know all the bartenders and security. When I go out in the city, I usually just hang out at Max Fish, Cakeshop, or Iggys on Ludlow. Yes, there are so many good looking women out here...but everytime I'm talking to them and they ask me "what do you do for a living" it's always the moment where I just get:huhldup:cause New York women are a different breed in my opinion. They're judging you on what you wear, how you wear it, where you work, what type of money you're making...which makes me kind of self-conscious because I'm not where I'd like to be professionally and financially.

I will be honest though, I've had better luck with women in New York than in Pittsburgh (my hometown). There are more women here willing to give men hat have their shyt together and have something going on for themselves a chance. Pittsburgh women are conceited princesses that really have no reason to be. The majority of them have really bad tastes and love meatheads and preppy guys. Also, I feel like a dude can't even ask a Pittsburgh woman for the time without her saying "I HAVE A BOYFRIEND" the first chance she can/


Yeah the "what do you do" question is intimidating, but just be truthful. When I was working as a busser, attractive girls didn't seem to mind.That's over thinking it. These girls struggling too, what you think sugar daddies for?

Maintaing and surviving in NYC in itself is an accomplishment. You already better than majority of men in other American cities.

NYC girls are pretty loose and open. Don't read into what they say too much. They just as nervous as you, so they resort to small talk. NYC women are the best breed imo.
 

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I can seriously relate to this :whew: This whole post is on point lol... Im not a food and sex only type of guy though I would need a little more than that but not much more :manny:
I mean yea, there's gotta be a little more, like have great conversation, be friends and get along of course, but as far as 'treating me', I don't need to be bought anything or pampered, just give me food and that small gesture will leave a lasting impression every time. I don't know what it is about a woman that cooks for me, but the more she does it, the more my eyes zoom in on her. To me, a woman that cooks and gives the nanny on demand, surpasses about 80% of the chicks on the field. trust me, I was on the field most of the summer. A Lot of females are fukking useless out there. They expect to be taken on dates, you pay for dinner, for you to do the talking and then majority of work in bed, but can't make cereal for the life of them, and have a messier crib than you do, so when they come over they using your dishes and don't have the female instinct to help wash them and show you their worth.

When a chick cooks for me and gives me some head after, I'm like "baby where you wanna eat this weekend, there's that nice place off the pier" :noah:
 

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I mean yea, there's gotta be a little more, like have great conversation, be friends and get along of course, but as far as 'treating me', I don't need to be bought anything or pampered, just give me food and that small gesture will leave a lasting impression every time. I don't know what it is about a woman that cooks for me, but the more she does it, the more my eyes zoom in on her. To me, a woman that cooks and gives the nanny on demand, surpasses about 80% of the chicks on the field. trust me, I was on the field most of the summer. A Lot of females are fukking useless out there. They expect to be taken on dates, you pay for dinner, for you to do the talking and then majority of work in bed, but can't make cereal for the life of them, and have a messier crib than you do, so when they come over they using your dishes and don't have the female instinct to help wash them and show you their worth.

When a chick cooks for me and gives me some head after, I'm like "baby where you wanna eat this weekend, there's that nice place off the pier" :noah:
:pachaha: I totally feel you man trust me.... I think similarly.
 

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Exclusive relationships are too much work and they unnecessarily complicate things. Broads start feeling like their entitled to the top spot on your priority list and get all up in your space :camby:

We can kick it and hang and whatnot, but it's best to keep it as simple as possible
Word I'm contemplating the single life again. I enjoy it much more.
 

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Aint been in a relationship for a while now, kinda shook that i will find a lady that was a hoe in her younger days :to:

plus twitter/instgram and news reports plus worldstar just make some females look like idiots tbh
 

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Aint been in a relationship for a while now, kinda shook that i will find a lady that was a hoe in her younger days :to:

plus twitter/instgram and news reports plus worldstar just make some females look like idiots tbh

EVERY GIRL UNDER THE AGE OF 35 WILL HAVE SHYT ON THE INTERNET. THE INTERNET EXPOSED THE WOMEN OF OUR GENERATIONS DIRTY LAUNDRY. YOU HAVE TO ACCEPT THAT ALL WOMEN HAVE THEIR HOE DAY HISTORY.
 

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EVERY GIRL UNDER THE AGE OF 35 WILL HAVE SHYT ON THE INTERNET. THE INTERNET EXPOSED THE WOMEN OF OUR GENERATIONS DIRTY LAUNDRY. YOU HAVE TO ACCEPT THAT ALL WOMEN HAVE THEIR HOE DAY HISTORY.

yeah but i just cant deal with that tbh, walking around with the chick you think is good for you and guys are laughing at you saying "haha you wifed up a slut" i just cant do it breh

i ment to laugh at guys that wife up sluts, i just cant imagine me finding my soul mate then my soul gets crushed when i find out she was a hoe :wow:
 

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More focused on personal growth than seeking a serious relationship right now, but i figure when the time comes it will grow into that naturally, you don't tend to find the right one but rushing into something just to not be alone
 
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