So when did social media become better than a phone number?

[Ghanaian Armor]

Not entirely true. Messing with a chick thats 20 and all I had to do was present myself. I swear is nikkas self esreem so low they think they need all these angles to get a chick? You should be able to stand out.immediately in person if you really that nikka. Simple as that. A girl tell me to add me on IG if I ask for a number Im laughinh it off and assuming she not interested cuz I do not have time to be another instant ego boost to a chick. Only thing texts should be is setting up a date for a chick you aint already smashing. Caking over words is not the way into a chick pants

OK you are over-simplifying this. "Stand out". For you to "stand out" to the average 20 year old chick you need to be Chris Brown or visually be driving up in a Benz, holding hydro in your left hand and a bottle of Henny in the right hand.

I'll need some additional context before taking your comment seriously such as Geography, your height etc. Because although I'm an older dude (29) I have plenty of young brothers added on FB in the 21 age range and your description is way off from what they are experiencing. These are the kids that have the latest prides and air force ones or whatever the fukk they are that's in now. So don't tell me they are nerds either cause they ain't...

 

[Da Jungles]

Clout?

You cats looking for Boss bytches to wife you up?

 

[Barnett114]

FilliBuster

 

[Deafheaven]

OK you are over-simplifying this. "Stand out". For you to "stand out" to the average 20 year old chick you need to be Chris Brown or visually be driving up in a Benz, holding hydro in your left hand and a bottle of Henny in the right hand.

I'll need some additional context before taking your comment seriously such as Geography, your height etc. Because although I'm an older dude (29) I have plenty of young brothers added on FB in the 21 age range and your description is way off from what they are experiencing. These are the kids that have the latest prides and air force ones or whatever the fukk they are that's in now. So don't tell me they are nerds either cause they ain't...

The fact you thinking some wack shyt like gear err other young brother is wearing is tanding out is telling. What I mean by standing out is the way you present yourself. Be a seducer not first not second. Most of these ypung heauxs would love for a nikka to act as such. You stand out by being fast, focused, and smooth. Most young brehs only have 1 or 3 of those I know it took me a while. You dont need to be chris brown unless you messint with literal model chicks and even then they just as easily can get smitten by a regular breh.

Hell im 5'3 but nice looking and have dated nothing but cute bishes. So if I can since height supposedly is the decidin factor forever and ever, Im pretty sure decent look dudes of regular height shouldnt need to resort to social media to do work

 

[Ghanaian Armor]

The fact you thinking some wack shyt like gear err other young brother is wearing is tanding out is telling. What I mean by standing out is the way you present yourself. Be a seducer not first not second. Most of these ypung heauxs would love for a nikka to act as such. You stand out by being fast, focused, and smooth. Most young brehs only have 1 or 3 of those I know it took me a while. You dont need to be chris brown unless you messint with literal model chicks and even then they just as easily can get smitten by a regular breh.

Hell im 5'3 but nice looking and have dated nothing but cute bishes. So if I can since height supposedly is the decidin factor forever and ever, Im pretty sure decent look dudes of regular height shouldnt need to resort to social media to do work

All I'm gonna say is this is your experience and great. But here in NYC the rules are different. Yes they look at a nikka gear and if you don't have something recognizable you ain't making no "Statement" or "Impact"...

I'm glad you can get shorties wherever you live just doing you that's fantastic. More Power to you but the culture is different here.

 

[KOOL-AID]

I've asked this before. The consensus on here seemed to be they can get a snippet of who you are and see if it's worth getting to know you over your carefully crafted social media image.


This generation is trash.

Hi tatet

 

[Deafheaven]

All I'm gonna say is this is your experience and great. But here in NYC the rules are different. Yes they look at a nikka gear and if you don't have something recognizable you ain't making no "Statement" or "Impact"...

I'm glad you can get shorties wherever you live just doing you that's fantastic. More Power to you but the culture is different here.

I hear you. I heard nyc has like the most single women tho tf going on over there

 

[Ghanaian Armor]

I hear you. I heard nyc has like the most single women tho tf going on over there

The bigger the city the bigger the bullshyt and egos on hoes. L.A. is even worse. If you not driving in a huge humvee with diamond plated rims or lying about some casting couch in that city then you ain't getting NO p*ssy at all...

NYC is about social game, that is the only way you can overcome any superficial B.S. limitations. Not even a midtown apartment/condo unit with a view is enough to keep 8's and above engaged with you here.

 

[Deafheaven]

The bigger the city the bigger the bullshyt and egos on hoes. L.A. is even worse. If you not driving in a huge humvee with diamond plated rims or lying about some casting couch in that city then you ain't getting NO p*ssy at all...

NYC is about social game, that is the only way you can overcome any superficial B.S. limitations. Not even a midtown apartment/condo unit with a view is enough to keep 8's and above engaged with you here.

That sucks breh

 

[daboywonder2002]

bro actually im ok with this. its much easier to get an email address than a phone number. you can respond at your own pace. women have kids and other activities so they cant really talk at the time.

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

since yesterday

 

[drugxglory]

A quick look at her insta/twitter can tell me if she is even worth my time.

 

[Bless't]

It's almost like they get offended honestly , That follow me shyt comes off to me like she wants me to be another fan

Like Im gonna be the hoe in the relationship/friendship is what it comes off as to me

This is exactly why I dont fukk with that IG and dm me shyt. I feel like I'm being used to just bump her numbers. fukk outta here.

 

[Ghostface Trillah]

bro actually im ok with this. its much easier to get an email address than a phone number. you can respond at your own pace. women have kids and other activities so they cant really talk at the time.

How is that any different from a text message?

 

[Bless't]

She saying look dude if you wanna get at me Rule number 1 is that I am above you. Two,you will wait in line just like all the other dudes. Three,you will be begging and giving me daps so all my friends see how much of a "player" I am. "That creep is obsessed with me" is what she will say. At that point, you are now the "hoe" to that woman.

You killed that response.