HARLEM AL
Your broad loves me.....
I think you’re on to something.
So Nichole Murphy is out in Italy fukking Lela Rochons husband
- Thread starter Standing on business
- Start date
Can you blame him?
Sunshine turned to a cloudy day
Damn sunshinelooking like moonshine
Negged
Her shirt should say
Lord. Have. Mercy.
facts
I wasn't declaring it being the "main" reason people cheat, and I wasn't even just talking about cheating. I was speaking to longevity of people's relationships more so. I don't give anyone a pass for cheating, like you said, just end it and move on... even tho that's harder to do when you have a lot to lose.because that aint the main reason people cheat or shyt falls apart. people cheat with much less attractive partners, people cheat with folks who are fatter or the same size as their mate, most cases, cheating aint no where near about one person in the relationship not keeping themselves up, it's either because they're missing something in the relationship, they had an opportunity, or they're just trifling
and if you feel someone is disrespecting the relationship by not keeping themselves up, wouldn't walking away/breaking up be the proper thing to do as opposed to cheating
I 100% know there's many reasons why people step out on their partners, I was getting at something that people don't like admitting tho. Opening up a discussion... physical attraction is always going to be important in one's relationship. Unfortunately, a lot of people place too much weight on that aspect, so that's why it's very easy for people to dip once their partner starts falling off. I just think a lot of folks would have happier more fruitful relationships if they had a deeper connection with each other beyond sex and physical attraction... but I also see how it can be stressful and frustrating to be in a relationship/marriage with someone that lets them self go and has the mentality that "you're supposed to love me the way I am" and that everything is ok.
If that person committed to you because you both are like minded and could have deep conversations, came from a structured family that instilled values in you, you kept yourself in decent shape and you fukked like a pornstar... and then over time you get "nice-nasty" with the sex life AND start letting yourself go... all those other attributes mentioned prior start to hit a little different.
Basically, I typed all that to say, people gotta keep that same energy. We as humans are going to be physically attracted to what we're attracted to. I'm not advocating for that poly-life either, I'm just saying don't act surprised when your partner becomes disinterested in you because you not putting the effort in to continuously make things work... that goes both ways, physically and emotionally speaking
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Breh ready for a fight
Damn that’s fukked up. If you can count on one person to stab you in the back, it’s your husband. No loyalty
oh shyt
If this keeps up: Rafters...no discussionRt...this might be the funniest thread on this board in years.
You nikkas are clowns
You can make a gym at home and have a trainer come out.
99% of men don't rely on their looks to get by in life and establish value
That's not our end of the social bargain
The premium on women’s looks is put on by men. If women did not get away with things just because of their appearance there would not be the Nicole Murphys of the woe because they would have to actually have skills outside of just looking good (facially debatable cause she looks like a scarecrow in the face)
That being said, women may not place as high a premium on appearance as men but that don’t mean they don’t want something nice to look at.
Fuqua ain’t someone I would look twice at from a physical standpoint and I can only imagine his despicable personality doesn’t help.
What a leap, I hate dark skin men because I don’t like Fuqua.
Do you like every dark skin women you see, do you even like dark skin women??
This entire thread from the title to the responses is CLASSIC
She picked Wendy's drive thru over her marriageLelas marriage has lasted way longer than most trophy wives who stay in the gym/surgeons office. Even while she was fat. Men will find anything to excuse their behavior.
Finding out your husband is fukking someone else at the same time as the rest of the world has gotta be painful as fukk. I feel sorry for her.