So nia choice the white boy

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I don't know why she asked for a white love interest, but the truth of the matter is that a black women being a producer at a major television network is going to have suitors of other races. Her social circle is different. Again, it's a fake character.

How again does this statement necessitate asking for what she did? What does "other suitors" at a television network have to do with an actor taking it upon themselves to ask for extra allowances such as the one I posed? Your excuse is spurious. There's no reason for her to ask for what she did. It reflects her mindset. Period.

LOL Taye Diggs is irrelevant but who is worrying about Nia Long? I think it's funny you guys will try to degrade her over a character in a movie but the black dudes actually living it out they are just irrelevant. smh.

No one is talking about Taye Diggs. This is not a thread about Taye Diggs. He didn't ask for extra allowances, whatever you think of him otherwise. Why are you stanning for Nia Long?
 

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How again does this statement necessitate asking for what she did? What does "other suitors" at a television network have to do with an actor taking it upon themselves to ask for extra allowances such as the one I posed? Your excuse is spurious. There's no reason for her to ask for what she did. It reflects her mindset. Period.



No one is talking about Taye Diggs. This is not a thread about Taye Diggs. He didn't ask for extra allowances, whatever you think of him otherwise. Why are you stanning for Nia Long?
First off, I'm not a "stan" because I don't agree with your opinion of her. Secondly, you haven't seen the movie and that's the perspective I'm speaking from. It is more realistic for a professional woman working at a major television network to have a white love interest. I can't find it in me to care that she wanted to bring that angle to the movie. It didn't matter anyway because at the end of the day, the movie would have been the same if her love interest had been black or white or non existent. Like Mike said she was just a supporting character.
 

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It's a movie though. The characters aren't even real. People are getting upset that a fake character has a white boyfriend. Taye Diggs and "hustle and flow mayne" have white spouses in REAL life.

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After taking a quick look over the story, if I'm looking at this from a "community" perspective, then I don't like that she explicitly asked for a non-black love interest in the movie. Her justification seemed to be based on "the world that her character lived in" as if there are not eligible black men in that "world." I think this says something about the way both black men and black women view each other as BOTH black men and black women seem to believe that once they pass a certain threshold that there are simply no black people to date, which is patently false.

The people who want to say "its just a movie" don't understand the power of imagery and the fact that imagery like this goes to further propogate the notion that I mentioned above-that once a black man/woman passes a certain threshold, then he/she has "no choice but to date out." The same people who don't understand imagery don't understand how news stories, movies and other media is used to create an image of black people that justifies negative/aggressive behavior towards us by other groups. Not to mention how we view each other. This will fly over heads and I will probably receive myopic responses to which I will probably not even respond (just a heads up).

I keep highlighting that the general level of respect for black men from black women, that every other woman has for her ethnic/racial male counterpart on an intrinsic level, IS LACKING. Ask yourself this, WOULD A WHITE WOMAN HAVE ASKED FOR A BLACK MALE COUNTERPART BECAUSE "OF THE WORLD WE LIVE IN NOW"? This is what Nia Long is quoted as saying in this MadamNoire piece: http://madamenoire.com/323219/the-best-man-holiday-nia-long/

Disclaimer: I am NOT an angry black man who hates black women. I have had quality romantic relationships with black women who have treated me royally. But I believe in objective review and discussion, especially on subjects that have a direct impact on me, my family and my community. And objectively, there is a lack of respect that is evident in the general perception that black women have of black men PERIOD.

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you dudes are hypocrites. Taye diggs and others are constanly promoting an ir agenda but you only get mad when a bw does it and she didn't even bash bm or anything. You're no better than those bw that hate bm/ww relationships but are cool with the reverse. Set an example and use some logic.
 

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I don't know why she asked for a white love interest, but the truth of the matter is that a black women being a producer at a major television network is going to have suitors of other races. Her social circle is different. Again, it's a fake character.

LOL Taye Diggs is irrelevant but who is worrying about Nia Long? I think it's funny you guys will try to degrade her over a character in a movie but the black dudes actually living it out they are just irrelevant. smh.
So you really gonna act as if Taye Diggs is liked around these parts? We already went in on him and his 62 teeth and his wife a couple months back. Now it's her turn.

It would require self reflection. :comeon: These dudes really believe in some agenda of phasing out the black man when the black man has said :pacspit: since before the civil rights movement. Globally we date outside our race more and it's not even close. Somehow that's "attacking the white supremacist system" and the opposite is "supporting it"..
imma need to see some receipts on that one.
 

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It's a movie though. The characters aren't even real. People are getting upset that a fake character has a white boyfriend. Taye Diggs and "hustle and flow mayne" have white spouses in REAL life.

it is kinda :patrice: whey give these black love roles to dudes who love white women :russ:

smh @ what thecoli has become. The cant-get-a-date crew of brain damaged niqqlets is fukkin up this site, with their drama queen type, whiny, bytchassness.

and all of these guys look up to tommy sotomayora

its not a coincidence
 

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lol isn't that for America, i don't think bw date out more that black men anywhere, but it's still higher for bw in other countries than in america isn't it? :patrice:
I live in America.

and Mike said black men date outside their race more than black women on a global perspective. I just found a credible site that backed it up.
 
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