I know I'm late but I am having the same problems as OP's girlfriend. My current boo thing does not cum quick( and usually with my previous exes, they came quickly) and he wants to pin me up, like folding my legs together as he roughly has sex with me, he wants to pick me up (i'm petite. I weigh 97 pounds) and screw me in the air, and I don't mind cuddling with him,but as I am sleeping I don't really like it.For some odd reason he just radiates body heat, and he's very heavy, which is very uncomfortable whenever he wants to snuggle up, or spoon me as I am sleeping.I am thinking about just telling him just let me give him bj's and call it a night during the course of our relationship.