So it seems like men like bad women just like y'all say women like bad men

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At this stage can we just agree men and women are as bad as each other and move on

Each side will continue to blame the other for their problems until the end of time.
 

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Y'know...funny enough, my friend dates this female who is nothing but trouble. He got into a brawl at a bowling alley because she started some foolishness with a couple of guys by flapping her gums. She puts dude through hell, and I've lost count on how many times this guy has complained about her & moped around depressed and angry. On the flip side, he has a chick yearning for him, who, for the most part, has her mind right. She wants to give dude the world. Cooks, cleans, offers to do his essays and homework, gives him rides..basically holds him down. When asked why he won't leave his hectic relationship, this negro replies that it's because he loves her and he knows she's no good, but he can't go anywhere.


Both of these females are equally unappealing physically. :skip:



For whatever reason, people like the drama. A lot of women will actually complain if there's nothing going sour in the relationship, and a lot of men happily feed into it under the guise that they hate it. I admit, I've fooled around with my share of females that I knew were bad for my health. Animal print, tramp stamps, clear heels - the whole nine. :wow: However, I never held a relationship with one, and would never conceive a child with o Every chick I've dated seriously was a 'good' girl.



I think folks just enjoy the dark side of human nature and are attracted to it in a mate. It's alluring to most, whether or not they admit it. :yeshrug:

Whenever a guy is going through hell like this it is because she is a freak in the sheets, just hood nasty, and he loves it. When he says he loves her, he means he loves the sex she gives him.
 
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Guys love to say girls like bad guys and always choose them over a good guy.

How are y'all any different?

Do y'all not cheat on your good woman that you have a home with the ho you met at the club? :stopitslime:
Do you not pick the girl who is always full of drama and thinks it's rewarding to be called a " bad bytch?" :sadcam:

Our how about the baby mama that you knew was shyt and an unfit parent way before she was pregnant.

I'm not saying any one of you In particular do this but some men have no room to talk.

Am I right?

I think this only applies if the dudes are taking these women seriously. You can't compare women who want to spend their life changing a bad guy to a dude who fukks and ducks hoes.
 
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1. the ones you feel you can't have

2. the ones you can have but you want to save

3. the ones that either remind you of or are what you feel are the exact opposite of their mothers.


Whether we admit it or not, it's usually a mix of the first and the third. God forbid we have unresolved issues or psychological trauma with our mothers. We'll damn near spend a lifetime trying to fix those problems with the third type of women.

none of these things make the women we choose (all the while knowing how it'll turn out) bad women. It just makes us fukked in the head.


Reason # 3 is underrated.


That's how I got involved with my sons mother.I saw a lot of my moms in her and it tapped into that soft spot in my heart.I wanted to be to her the man I wish my mother always had...the guy who I wished would always come and save us:to:


Everybody always told me how I was such a good guy...how I was a great son/big brother, but nobody ever pulled me to the side to tell me how vulnerable,naive, and gullible I was.These she wolves don't care that you were a "good son".If they sense that about you, you'll be food out here.Not saying all females, but it's some female sociopaths circulating around in society.No matter how soft and demure they look on the outside, they can be capable of beasting on you spiritually/emotional wise.You better off letting Freddie Krueger clutch your heart.


Most women don't have the heart to tell their sons about the dark side of females.They might say lil cliche shyt like "watch these fast tailed lil girls" but they never really go into depth as to why:why:


Yeah....that #3, breh:wow:
 

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There is a huge difference in simply bangin a "bad bytch/Stripper/InstaGram Ho/Ratchet" than it is WIFIN or inpregnatin one of those females. THAT'S WHERE nikkaZ MAKE THE MISTAKE!

"Bad girls" are fun. They are fun for the moment, they serve a certain purpose, they are not to be taken seriously and they are primarily used and needed when you just need a jump off or bust down.

When a man is simply just tryin to get his rocks off, when a man is simply playin the field, soilin his royal oats, clubbin, partyin we don't nessesarily "need" the good church girl at that point in our lives. (Not sayin that we won't hit that) :whoa:

But even when we are in a relationship with a "good girl" The allure of other bytches, the dynamic of wanting what u can't have, sometimes comes into play. They say that forbidden fruit tastes the best :noah:

That jumpoff may simply be a huge freak ad she does shyt that wifey doesn't do. fukkin a lot of bytches does boost your ego and your status amongst your homies. :salute:

I could go on all day. Its levels to this shyt :myman:
 

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I don't know what the truth is, but it sure seems like the only people who want good men or good women are people who made poor choices in mates in the past.

I don't know many 25 year olds looking for "good" men or women as much as they're looking for excitement and a good time.
Sit around a table with a bunch of 40 year olds and it's the opposite.

Just seems that way. Maybe it's not true.
 

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Reason # 3 is underrated.


That's how I got involved with my sons mother.I saw a lot of my moms in her and it tapped into that soft spot in my heart.I wanted to be to her the man I wish my mother always had...the guy who I wished would always come and save us:to:


Everybody always told me how I was such a good guy...how I was a great son/big brother, but nobody ever pulled me to the side to tell me how vulnerable,naive, and gullible I was.These she wolves don't care that you were a "good son".If they sense that about you, you'll be food out here.Not saying all females, but it's some female sociopaths circulating around in society.No matter how soft and demure they look on the outside, they can be capable of beasting on you spiritually/emotional wise.You better off letting Freddie Krueger clutch your heart.


Most women don't have the heart to tell their sons about the dark side of females.They might say lil cliche shyt like "watch these fast tailed lil girls" but they never really go into depth as to why:why:


Yeah....that #3, breh:wow:

:to::to::to: I almost got trapped by one of em too breh.

And yo, I have no problem with chicks wanting a bad boy while they're young. Thats what youth is for. Just dont try to bring that baggage, along with your children, into my life :whoa:
 

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Y'know...funny enough, my friend dates this female who is nothing but trouble. He got into a brawl at a bowling alley because she started some foolishness with a couple of guys by flapping her gums. She puts dude through hell, and I've lost count on how many times this guy has complained about her & moped around depressed and angry. On the flip side, he has a chick yearning for him, who, for the most part, has her mind right. She wants to give dude the world. Cooks, cleans, offers to do his essays and homework, gives him rides..basically holds him down. When asked why he won't leave his hectic relationship, this negro replies that it's because he loves her and he knows she's no good, but he can't go anywhere.


Both of these females are equally unappealing physically. :skip:



For whatever reason, people like the drama. A lot of women will actually complain if there's nothing going sour in the relationship, and a lot of men happily feed into it under the guise that they hate it. I admit, I've fooled around with my share of females that I knew were bad for my health. Animal print, tramp stamps, clear heels - the whole nine. :wow: However, I never held a relationship with one, and could never fathom conceiving a child with one. Every chick I've dated seriously was a 'good' girl.



I think folks just enjoy the dark side of human nature and are attracted to it in a mate. It's alluring to most, whether or not they admit it. :yeshrug:
Nothing should have came after this post :patrice:

:salute:
 

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:to::to::to: I almost got trapped by one of em too breh.

And yo, I have no problem with chicks wanting a bad boy while they're young. Thats what youth is for. Just dont try to bring that baggage, along with your children, into my life :whoa:

thet hing is many women don't learn they keep thinking they can change bad boys and tame them, or when they ifnally learn they got 1 or 2 b*stard child, herpes, a stalking ex like lex


or emotional damage that will just bring destruction and drama to your life
 
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