So I’m out dining at a 5star restaurant in Houston and…

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i can’t lie. I used to be mad, but it seems a lot of black men and women don’t get along anymore as. And based on what I see online, perhaps this is the results.
One of my best friends in real life was never an internet type nikka. Didn't really post on forums, never really used twitter he has IG for personal friends and post his pics but that's it. Recently this nikka been telling me all about that Red Pill shyt. It started with Kevin Samuels and he's fallen all the way down the rabbit hole to Alpha male strategies. Then a lot of the women (especially educated ones) I talked to are jumping on that twitter "nikkas" ain't shyt rhetoric. All of this divisive internet shyt is legit turning into real life. The future might be bleak.

To contrast how divisive all that shyt is. I have an Indian friend and sometimes hang out with his Indian circle of friends. They literally all are friends, take vacations together, get money together. All date within their race. No divisiveness. There's usual drama and gossip but they do genuinely still live, love, and support each other. I hung out with my Indian friends and his friend and seen some of the wild shyt they do and hear some of the stories and was like damn I never knew ya'll get down like that. One of my million dollar ideas way back in the day was a white version of worldstarhiphop. But then it dawned on me us as black people are the only race it seems where damn near every aspect of us is out for everyone's entertainment and for sale.

This is a biased view. About 7% of the US population uses twitter, yet we allow it to completely warp what we think most people believe or act like. In real life, most black men marry black women. That's just a fact. And while higher earning black men are more likely to date outside their race than lower income black men, overall the majority of higher income black men marry black women as well.

There is no war or real tension between black men and women, beyond the typical struggles that go on between all men and women.

I really want to believe this. And hopefully my experience I mentioned above is just my personal anecdote. But this divisive shyt needs to stop.
 

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My wife and I been looking for other blck couples to go to dinner with. We ain’t rich but damn sure not poor. It’s hard to find like minded black couples these days. Jack and Jill wanted us to join but they got too many issues for us.
How did j&j come across y’all?
 

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I’m the rare black man here with a black wife and two black children. Last of a dying breed unfortunately.
No disrespect meant at all:

But you take your kids to a place where people
want to go and relax on a Saturday night with their significant others?

When I go into a restaurant I’m not trying to see or hear kids, now Black kids are 9,000% better disciplined, but there’s a time and place for everything and Saturday date night is not the time
for seeing entire families have dinner. Turns the whole energy from “this is a dope spot” to “oh wait this is a family restaurant deal?” instantly

Why not get a baby sitter and have dinner with the whole family during the week or Sunday?

Also: I barely ever see 2 dudes having dinner, brehs with pawgs is the wave for so many understandable reasons. Unless you meet a sister who is normal. Just go on Twitter and search “black man’s fault” and it’s 1,000s of 1,000s of Black women saying insane shyt about us and these tweets getting liked by 100,000s of Black women.
 

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Up till I say 1999 LA used to be the same, where all u saw was black men and black women

but now and even through out California you constantly see brehs with non black women and starting to see a lot more sisters with white men

some are native Californians, but a ton more of transplants who move here and anything they see as white is right
 

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first page shytting on OP for no reason.

dude made an acute observation and bought it to us to chop up.

in my City there are 2 types of IR relationships between black men and white women.

- the pip pip cheerio Ozwald Boetang c00n who loves the high class etiquette horse riding white broads.

- brothers with the council estate white girls who think they are black because they live in a poor housing and listen to bashment/rap.

if you don't fit into these two categories you wont be getting white broads, exception is college. i see type 1 around the area i live in all the time. in starbucks, coffe houses, little cute bistros, etc. shyt is foul to me, self loathing no education of their prideful history. they think success is white pigmentation.
 
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