So...I think I might cheat on my girl.

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haha sorry that you had to explain it. Nah that's really not my style. I don't approach guys and especially not to make anyone jealous. Those same girls that might be eying me or my girls are probably noticed by us too..."the fukk are they wearing?!" ...just keeping it honest.
:whoa: I ain't even say that. Idk I find women's cattiness to be amusing especially if you're in the middle of it
 

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It's not like it took a lot out of me to type and hope that. It's also a very worthy hope because if she finds out, she probably won't regret the fact that she wasn't having fun too.

Men can't have it both ways.
I think she'll just be hurt more so than regret that she wasn't having fun. If she wants fun, she wouldn't be in a relationship (hopefully). I see what you're saying, but for me, if I'm with someone, I give 100% or I just stay single otherwise. I don't think about who I'm missing out on while being with this person...I guess if I did think that, that's a red flag that I shouldn't be in a committed relationship.
 

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lol @ all the bytches in here complaining

mad because they nikka is prolly fukking behind their backs also, :yeshrug:
 

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They put the effort into cheating they should be putting effort into not getting caught either. Ole Plan A ass nikkas.
i perfer they just put the effort into not cheating at all. if i find out you've gone to extreme lengths to hide that form of betrayal from me over a long period of time i'ma be even MORE PISSED then if you were sloppy once and got caught. but that's just me :ld:
 

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I think she'll just be hurt more so than regret that she wasn't having fun. If she wants fun, she wouldn't be in a relationship (hopefully). I see what you're saying, but for me, if I'm with someone, I give 100% or I just stay single otherwise. I don't think about who I'm missing out on while being with this person...I guess if I did think that, that's a red flag that I shouldn't be in a committed relationship.

Me neither, but shyt happens.
 

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If he likes her so much, then cut it off with his current woman and go move on to her if she's just that bad. He needs to give his current girl a chance to move on if he can't live up to what a commitment entails.

Some cats love playing a losing hand on here. "Man, I got an interview for an $100,000 job tomorrow. There's a possibility of a drug test, but I feel like smoking. Should I smoke some weed?"

If you got a woman that's getting everything right, no drama, cooks, cleans, listens, and doesn't need an emotional circus to operate, introducing some drama via a one night stand is nonsensical.

Cut what off? The only way to be in a committed relationship is to be married (legally or culturally) or common law. He is just not revealing to the girl he is dating about the other girl he wants to *date* and nor does he have to, unless she asks.
 

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I think she'll just be hurt more so than regret that she wasn't having fun. If she wants fun, she wouldn't be in a relationship (hopefully). I see what you're saying, but for me, if I'm with someone, I give 100% or I just stay single otherwise. I don't think about who I'm missing out on while being with this person...I guess if I did think that, that's a red flag that I shouldn't be in a committed relationship.

I think the same way while I am in a relationship. I've never cheated on a mate, but I've been cheated on thought "damn, I wish I would not have taken this so seriously and simply had fun too." If he wants to explore his options, she should have that opportunity as well.
 

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Me neither, but shyt happens.
Not really...cause you're here debating about whether you're going to cheat or not lol it's premeditated...you're on here saying that you're going to make it happen....it's not like you're out drunk and bam! it just happened (although I don't excuse that either, but you get my point).
 

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Some dudes ain't living until they losing.
They always looking for dumb shyt to get
their blood churning.

That's all there is to it. Some people just enjoy the drama. It's greed that often wrecks a solid situation. Personally, if I had it made, then I'm not going to make moves to intentionally lose it. There's a shortage of decent people in this day and age, so if you find one, better hold on... That's my motto, but if people want to willingly sink their own ships or create mutiny, they can't say I didn't warn them.
 
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