So...I think I might cheat on my girl.

[Desirous]

In the documentary The Last Days of Left Eye, TLC member Lisa "Left Eye" Lopes said she was 100% against the release of "Creep" as a single, and threatened to wear black tape over her mouth in the music video. She thought that when a girl finds out that her man is cheating on her, the girl better leave rather than cheat back.

Or burn the dude's house down.

But she's right though...just leave.

 

[BlvdBrawler]

So your girl was cool with you rolling solo to another country? IMO, that's kind of someone you'd want to keep happy, rather than potentially throw it away for a nut.

 

[Huellz Santana]

Soooo....I met up and hooked up with this chik while in London when I was out there. We didn't smash but came very close. She's coming to my city for 8 days starting on Thursday,and she made it clear she wants to finish business.

I know, I know...this is her on the left:

So I feel like I need to get this out my system. I have a girl, but sheeitt. I'm going thru it.

NEVER come on here and ask about cheating. 80% of posters are gonna demonize you. i say you're single until you're married. ​

 

[mcdivit85]

Not saying I will, but some things are just a man thing, There's no other way to explain it, sorry.

Not really. Cheating is not a man thing, its a cheater thing-reserved for both males and females. And this is coming from someone who has cheated more than once in more than one relationship. But even I wouldn't say something like that.

The thing is, is this one night stand that you're looking at even worth the trouble? What are you getting out of it? A nut? The gratification of knowing that some chick will let you smash even though you have a girl? Do you think this makes you some sort of playa? Do you think you going to get props?

One quality partner who actually loves you and brings much to the table > a bunch of cheap, "fun" flings in foreign lands. They aint knowin tho...until they're too old to do something about it that is.

If your chick decides to fire you, then what? Is Coli going to see a "My chick fired me because I smahed that Asian broad" thread? Its all fun and games until your partner decides to call your bluff.

Peace

 

[Illuminatos]

Weak

 

[Guess Who]

You don't respect your girl. As such, you shouldn't be with her.

If you're in a committed relationship, you've made the agreement to not fukk other people. If you fukk other people you are not only disrespecting another person, but you are disrespecting yourself and effectively throwing your own dignity in the bushes.

 

[Mike Ock]

, she's coming here on her own. I just happen to be living in the place she visits. I've ignored my ex coming to town, Will probably do the same to her...well, probably

How come y'all totally ignored this? Y'all focus too much on the bad.

at the std and concussion stats, and the Martin clip.

 

[Slang]

How come y'all totally ignored this? Y'all focus too much on the bad.

at the std and concussion stats, and the Martin clip.

for real tho.

First thing losers will state when men live out their reality is a threat of a STD. As if there aren't billions of people living without STD's in the world.

 

[Slang]

As long as he has his CISSP cert, he should be able to swing that into a threesome.

lol

 

[Mike Ock]

So your girl was cool with you rolling solo to another country? IMO, that's kind of someone you'd want to keep happy, rather than potentially throw it away for a nut.

I booked the trip months in advance before me and her made it official. Me and her were just friends at the time of me booking it.

 

[Ice Cold]

This is the part that has me in tears...Slang gonna be going full retard in the courtroom.

Monday: *Arrives with attorney to courthouse to argue a speeding ticket*
Wednesday: *Sentenced to death*



I can't eem breath.

LOL I'm putting that in my sig

 

[Abstract83]

nikka don't do it. shyt might be temptin. Just don't trust me. These chicks be havin different plans for u. She gon try to mess up what u got at home.

 

[swimmingpools]

You bold enough to cheat, but not bold enough to break up with your gf.

I hope your girl cheats on you and says "its only natural".

 

[Turbulent]

Ask yourself what need is it the new girl would be fulfilling and if there is a way for your girl to compensate it so that you don't feel like you need to fukk the new girl. if so, talk to your girl about it and direct her into doing what you need her to do. If not, go to your girl and tell her straight up that you want to stay with her but there is this other girl you're really feeling and you find yourself lusting over and that you didn't want to lie. Tell her she's free to leave if she's unhappy with this but that you hope she stays. Now of course you should expect her to be mad, sad and angry and be ready for that. If you're not ready for that, don't bring it up and don't sleep with the new girl (that goes without saying). But stick to your words and keep it real. maybe you could find a compromise (threesome, open relationship). If she wants to leave, don't hold her back. If she stays, i guess everyone wins.

disclaimer: this can only be done if you,re willing to be honest with her and with yourself and ready for her to leave. You have to evacuate manage fear and bytchassness within. whatever you decide, i hope it will be wise and provide happiness to everyone involved.

 

[Mike Ock]

I thought about it I don't think I can go all the way thru with this. Too much at stake to lose. I'd prolly just go have a drink with this chik and wish her a good trip. About to be 30 next yr, I don't wanna be back in the single market.