should be required reading for every new black on here
great article. thank you for posting the link earlier
So i just knocked my tap dancing c00n ass brother out... Here's why
should be required reading for every new black on here
great article. thank you for posting the link earlier
No prob. I thought it would be worth the read.
You should help your brother understand that even if he isn't like other black folk, he should still be proud of his race and people. He should still want to stand in solidarity with them.
You two come from the same place but have very different perspectives on life. Use that as a way to establish common ground between him and those he deems "different" from him. Always gotta stick together and show people like that the error in their views. You too must learn the error in your violent ways. You mean well, but your methods won't yield the desired results breh. Help guide him towards a positive understanding of his people if at all possible.
You two come from the same place but have very different perspectives on life. Use that as a way to establish common ground between him and those he deems "different" from him. Always gotta stick together and show people like that the error in their views. You too must learn the error in your violent ways. You mean well, but your methods won't yield the desired results breh. Help guide him towards a positive understanding of his people if at all possible.
Smokin Rider
I been official
Your brother sound like a fakkit but you just as much of 1 breh. I would never whoop my brothers ass then disrespect him on the coli for daps, that's bytchmade as fukk. I was taught to handle my shyt in house.
You duckin them like you ran from your brother and fathers messages.
ignore list lookin heavy af
You duckin them like you ran from your brother and fathers messages.
@Zoovier I know you said you abandoned the thread but I thought this was a good thread breh.
Just a question related to one of my previous posts. You state the following:
I know here on the coli we like to deal in the extremes and judge people in the most harsh manner possible but honestly, like I said in an earlier post, maybe this "c00ning" is a manifestation of the some bitterness and resentment and even depression with not being able to fit in at school. Folks in the thread are saying shyt like disown him but perhaps look at it below the racial context and within the context of everything else and just on a human level. This isn't a grown as man set in his way expressing these thoughts. Its a growing child and I doubt any of us are exactly like we were as teenagers as adults so this isn't a hopeless situation.
I'm assuming based on what you said, this dude is a teen. Teens, especially males, usually deal with their issues by being angry and lashing out at those around them as a form rebellion and frustration in dealing with their issues. I'm not excusing it and the fact he was indirectly or directly insulting his female family deserves for him to be checked but at the same time maybe you guys need to look into why he is acting like this because it most likely didn't appear out of then air.
Just based on the little information you gave, he seems depressed and doesn't have many friends if he is staying inside and playing video games all day. He is probably seeking attention by saying these outrageous things, which teens love to do which is why they are universally known to be shytheads. If you want to get things back to normal with your brother, I would suggest you explain in detail why what he was saying was hurtful to your family and why you reacted the way you did and at the same time apologizing for crossing the line maybe in socking him so your relationship can get back on normal terms.
I'm interested to hear if you have more info about his day to day life at school and how he is handling that. I personally had some self-esteem issues for a while in highschool because when I started highschool I had just moved to a new unfamiliar place and knew no one and had nothing in common culturally with the people I went to school with. I'm not talking about racially but economically but the way your brother is acting sounds familiar.
Just a question related to one of my previous posts. You state the following:
I know here on the coli we like to deal in the extremes and judge people in the most harsh manner possible but honestly, like I said in an earlier post, maybe this "c00ning" is a manifestation of the some bitterness and resentment and even depression with not being able to fit in at school. Folks in the thread are saying shyt like disown him but perhaps look at it below the racial context and within the context of everything else and just on a human level. This isn't a grown as man set in his way expressing these thoughts. Its a growing child and I doubt any of us are exactly like we were as teenagers as adults so this isn't a hopeless situation.
I'm assuming based on what you said, this dude is a teen. Teens, especially males, usually deal with their issues by being angry and lashing out at those around them as a form rebellion and frustration in dealing with their issues. I'm not excusing it and the fact he was indirectly or directly insulting his female family deserves for him to be checked but at the same time maybe you guys need to look into why he is acting like this because it most likely didn't appear out of then air.
Just based on the little information you gave, he seems depressed and doesn't have many friends if he is staying inside and playing video games all day. He is probably seeking attention by saying these outrageous things, which teens love to do which is why they are universally known to be shytheads. If you want to get things back to normal with your brother, I would suggest you explain in detail why what he was saying was hurtful to your family and why you reacted the way you did and at the same time apologizing for crossing the line maybe in socking him so your relationship can get back on normal terms.
I'm interested to hear if you have more info about his day to day life at school and how he is handling that. I personally had some self-esteem issues for a while in highschool because when I started highschool I had just moved to a new unfamiliar place and knew no one and had nothing in common culturally with the people I went to school with. I'm not talking about racially but economically but the way your brother is acting sounds familiar.
that's not the way
If you are ko'd by your brother taking it to the next level would reinforce his beliefs and confirm everything he thinks about you and yours
that would be a great opportunity to turn the other cheek and show him you can solve disputes without violence
talk to him and try to understand why he'd feel the need to knock you out
obviously seeing your actions over the years influenced and brought him to this point
TELL ME YA CHEESIN FAM?
I walk around a little edgy already
Ex-communicate that lil nikka
Concerning VIolence
Decolonizer
Everyone in here is black but never had to deal with disrespect in their family? 
This is the same forum that thinks disciplining your child is necessary.
" what if he disrespected your mom"
"But that's different"
No it isn't.
This is the same forum that thinks disciplining your child is necessary.
" what if he disrespected your mom"
"But that's different"
No it isn't.
David_TheMan
Banned
What world do we live in when a the one who isn't a fukking criminal and isn't the one punching people in the face when he gets angry is the one who is parents have said to failed?
LOL
Good shyt. He needs to learn to not disrespect his family. Hopefully he keeps his opinions to himself so he won't have to get rocked again.please read the whole thing from top to bottom
my younger blood brother. now please bare with me because this post may sound like a bunch of rambling and not cohesive but that's only because im still frustrated
now i've always known my brother was a lil c00n. his slick remarks about black women having attitudes, and how he would complain to me about people calling him whitewashed at school. 'because i'm not ignorant like the rest of them" is what he would say
me and my brother are polar opposites. he always got good grades, never fought, plays videogames all fukking day, never outside that much aside from him playing football for a while up until his junior year.never smoked or drank.
i was getting suspended in elementary, expelled in middle school for weed, was gangbanging in high school, selling drugs and home invasions. thankfully i smartened up after i almost got charged as an adult with attempted burglary at 17. i cleaned myself up got a job now and doing well about to move out a lil after my 20th birthday this year.
what i could never understand is, he would never say anything to me directly about what i was doing, but he would bad talk those doing the same shyt.
but on to what happened tonight. we were at my aunts house for my baby cousin birthday. so im in the back room taking a nap, my dad comes in wakes me up and tells me he got some dinner. so i get up to head to the kitchen and my mom walks past me, eyes red like she had just finished crying. i asked her whats was wrong. she just said dont worry about it and walked outside. i get into the living room and ask whats going.
now mind you my brother was in a room with 4 black women, our family, my mom, my 2 older aunties, and my 28 year old cousin
my aunt tells me this nikka was telling them how he didnt like the black girls "at his school"
because they're dirty, ratchet, have attitudes, and sleep around
as if other women don't do the same shyt
apparently my mom was mad, my cousin started to go at him but my auntie was going HARD at him about stereotyping his own women then my mom and auntie started goin at it cuz she felt like she was attacking my brother
so i look at this nikka and say you really had the audacity to say some shyt like that? what the fukk is your problem?
he spits something straight out of that passive aggressive white rhetoric
"i'm not saying ALL act like that but most of them do thats just my opinion"
now it doesn't even just stop there. the conversation moves on to the presidency out of nowhere
and this nikka is sitting here in front of the whole family talking about he's supporting trump
we trying to explain how donald trump is a racist, but this uncle ruckus nikka just aint having it. talking about trump is the best for the country and he's not a racist.
i look at him and say you're sitting here defending someone who hates you nikka
how much more of a c00n could you be
my dad starts explaining to my brother about how these racists will get bolder if trump gets in office, about him worrying about us and police brutality. he tells my dad "that would never happen to me because i dont act like most black people"
and thats what pushed me over the fukking edge.
i got up and took his chin... then immediately left before anyone could stop and talk to me or anything, got in my car and now im at my girls house. my dads been trying to call me but i wont answer. i just dont even know what to feel right now. i dont know how someone who literally grew up in the hood wit me, seen what we had to go through, adapt this mentality
Prince Mongo
Banned
I legit don't give a fukk. Why do y'all nikkas assume that y'all lives are interesting enough to make a thread out of it? nikka nobody gives a fukk about your lame ass family issues
And you a nikka that's out here catching charges, why does anybody need to take your criticism seriously? It's sounds like you need to fix yourself. You're obviously not that smart to begin with seeing as you thought this shyt was appropriate to post
And you a nikka that's out here catching charges, why does anybody need to take your criticism seriously? It's sounds like you need to fix yourself. You're obviously not that smart to begin with seeing as you thought this shyt was appropriate to post
Me and my lil brother use to trade fists when we younger and to this day I still feel like a piece of shyt for it, so I don't agree with giving him that chin work even though he was saying some stupid shyt. But like someone else said, he'll get his wakeup call.
Mine did too.
Mine did too.
yet you care enough to type a paragraphnobody cares but this shyt got over 440 postsand its not like any of you ever going to meet me in real life im "exposing" my family issuesbut where did i include names and locations?
i will always be anonymous therefore none of yu mfs have any effect on me
foh nikka
@Zoovier you prolly coulda handled it different but you are the big bro. If you don't check him who will? He coulda been saying this shyt around non family members and got way worse results. At least now he will think twice
You don't make moms cry
thinking bout it now i could have handled it differently tho
@BlackPearl
^^ at this ex stripping cum guzzler calling anybody a degenerate 
hilarious this bytch wrote an essay