So Brehs, I'm Trying To Make The Transition From "Player" To "Boyfriend Material"
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MrFantastic
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Yeah, it was kinda fun when I was younger cause I felt like I could be different characters with these hoes. I even had a fake name just in case they knew somebody I might have known.
I milked the "educated thug" angle for so much ass
But it gets to the point where you say, How many hoes, how many threesomes, or freaky encounters is it gonna take for you be satisfied or content.
Like it has Don't get me wrong, When I made a decision to change, it took about 2 years to fully change my lifestyle... but I'm glad I did it
100% truth
Did all this... When I decided to chill.. It was hard not to take the gimmies.. Talking to a woman you know you could get... And saying no takes effort and dedication..but its more than worth it!
DaChampIsHere
Survive the drought
Damn, you're only 22 though? Mi Rawtid!!
100% truth
Did all this... When I decided to chill.. It was hard not to take the gimmies.. Talking to a woman you know you could get... And saying no takes effort and dedication..but its more than worth it!
to y'all brehs. 
↓R↑LYB
I trained Sheng Long and Shonuff
You tryname Retta?
I been too lucky. I know my time is comin' soon. I'm gettin' out while I can. Player game like the crack game.
Stay frosty Breh. For a while I was going reckless, going raw with chicks I met at the club the night before. I still pee with fingers crossed just to be on the safe side.
30 times,
There are usually 15-18 really quality chicks at any given school. 30 times 
Nah breh, their relationship is. I can say this for sure for my LB who lives with me. Dude be
I'm 22.I know that seems young, but I've pretty much done everything that most men want "sexually" when it comes to women. I've done all of that. I've been livin' since I was like 15/16, so I'm kinda old on the shyt I do.
from one greek to another
it gets harder but also easier once you graduate
its harder cause if you have a job, thats free flowing money that allows you to do whatever you want, whenever you want....which in my case = trouble every weekend
it gets easier though because you have to CHOOSE to involve yourself in those situations
but believe me, you're not ready, you're not ready....I'm still learning the hard way
If you gotta "try" to make yourself into boyfriend material you aren't ready. The change is like cancer, by the time you know it you'll be in stage four.
DaChampIsHere
Survive the drought
I have money now. Probably too much for someone in my age category. Trust breh, I spend too much money on the weekends (I still save a lot though). I would actually like to cut down on the amount I spend on liq/parties/eating out/etc. I'm not missing anything in that sense.
And believe me breh, I'm ready.
I never stop being horny.
This is not a "I'm tired of extra p*ssy" thing. 
30 times,
shyttin' me. I slayed like 20 chicks my first year alone.
I was 
on campus. After my first month on campus, I already had a rep goin' strong. 
No really, what are you talking about? 
What I'm saying is that you can't force such a change on yourself. By your own admissions you're a young, arrogant fukk. And you're only 22 trying to make moves. Why try to juggle a relationship on top of that? Especially if you're forcing yourself. If the shyt goes sour after you made sacrifices that affected your own goals you're going to be bitter and harbor resentment.
When "that time" comes for the change, you won't even realize it until it's too late. You'll already be "boyfriend material." You'll be like "Damn, this bytch really got me in my feelings.
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DaChampIsHere
Survive the drought
I think some of y'all are missing that (1) I'm not forcing anything, (2) I'm not jumping into a relationship this very moment.
I have money now. Probably too much for someone in my age category. Trust breh, I spend too much money on the weekends (I still save a lot though). I would actually like to cut down on the amount I spend on liq/parties/eating out/etc. I'm not missing anything in that sense.
And believe me breh, I'm ready.
lol you're not in that too much money for someone our age, trust me
you already know how summers are for greeks.....there's a major party in every state every weekend, so the p*ssy doesn't stop
then you know how annual celebrations go
every spring break/ july4th/christmas/new years eve you're going to be partying in a random city
What city are you moving to after graduation? That can easily double the amount of trouble you get into.
and you know, know, KNOW you ain't
for some bytch you meet after school...u ain't got her carfax or NATHAN....u know u smutting her out on GP 
Just embrace the demonic lifestyle, don't fight that shyt. As a greek you knew what it was from the day you crossed
Until you find a woman you genuinely care for and genuinely respect, don't force yourself to conform.
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DaChampIsHere
Survive the drought
lol you're not in that too much money for someone our age, trust me
you already know how summers are for greeks.....there's a major party in every state every weekend, so the p*ssy doesn't stop
then you know how annual celebrations go
every spring break/ july4th/christmas/new years eve you're going to be partying in a random city
What city are you moving to after graduation? That can easily double the amount of trouble you get into.
and you know, know, KNOW you ain't
Just embrace the demonic lifestyle, don't fight that shyt. As a greek you knew what it was from the day you crossed
Until you find a woman you genuinely care for and genuinely respect, don't force yourself to conform.
Breh, I'm from Atlanta, and I go to AGP every year, trust, it ain't much more I can do there. I hit Miami for spring breaks, and about 4 times each year off GP, rent houses and hotels for that. I'm at the regular beach at least once a month rentin' out cribs for that. NYC a couple of times through the summer. I done done it all.
I've been through enough fukkery.Again, I'm not forcing myself to do anything. There is no part of me that wants to continue to chase and chase and chase just for sex.
Why y'all tryna convince me to keep fukkin' these hoes?
I've made up my mind. 
I'm still going to be a social creature, just not engaging the BS anymore. I would like to have something, so I can't keep doing things that work against that.