according to the lifetime movie based on his security team, he went out of his way to keep out his family and black friends. notice all his white friends can tell you how many time they been to the ranch. he went out with skanky madonna to the oscars, he took skanky lisa marie to africia where he was crown a king.
The movie made no mention if his black friends. As far as family, it was Randy and Joe, and possibly Jermaine. Randy was always hitting him up for money, and Joe is borderline crazy. The movie also showed that his mother could come over whenever. Also, he was dating those women. The movie showed him dating a black woman.
Also a little known fact, in a recorded conversation (the women that he was talking to had a husband who thought that she was cheating with MJ so he recorded the conversations) he stated that he wanted Diana Ross, but she wasn't with it.