A lot of men were raised by the same women who possess that thought process.
This is only prevalent amongst black males.
But there's only so many times you can hear "nikkas ain't shyt," and "He left me because I wasn't white/light enough," growing up before it becomes ingrained in your psyche.
Yeah, yeah. I know. A lot of you were raised by a mother in a happy marriage. Blah, blah.
The kicker is that those same women will flip their shyt over a well kept white guy, a long haired "exotical" with green eyes -
or the Puerto Rican roughneck down the street, but will get
furious is they see black men with other women.
A lot of these same women have been with "other" men and/or wouldn't hesitate to do so.
Which is why no man should give a damn about how any woman or their zesty seed(s) feels about what he's sticking.