No they don't because these men oftentimes ignore the ones in their race who ARE feeling them and nastily project their bitterness towards the top tier chicks that rejected them to the entire blk female demographic, relying on age old stereotypes to justify dismissing an entire demographic in favor of what many of them wanted initially anyway: a non-blk woman.
OK, I'll concede that dudes can overlook SOME women when they approach others. But the narrative that men only chase Instathots and top tier chicks need to stop. Men are much more open to women of different looks/styles/physiques than women are to men of different looks/styles/physiques. Why do you think there are 5s and 6s who walk around with laundry list requirements of what they expect in a man? Why do you think average and even below-average chicks are able to finesse dudes on dates? Hell, JBO by itself is proof that men have very diverse tastes in women. Like Saigon said, if everybody's fukking dimes, who getting these ugly bytches pregnant?
Also many of the men with these complaints AREN'T approaching at all. Many have virtually no frequent interaction with the women of their own race and merely parrot stereotypes and online stories they hear others speak about. I've had to ask several times if some blk men even know their own women because many of the stereotypes they throw out are so dated that they are very telling. Lmao!
And that's why men who don't approach women yet complain all day in real life and on the internet about women not choosing them get ridiculed. And rightfully so. But in the same vein, women who don't approach men yet complain about not getting as much attention as other women should be ridiculed.
This seems like a contradiction. If they aren't approaching, wouldn't that mean they would be justified in complaining about whether men choose to approach them or not. For a woman the fact that the man didn't choose to even approach is rejection. Whether we agree with it or not, that's the way it is.
If you don't approach men/women and initiate interest, then you have no right to complain. If you want something in life, you have to go and get it. Relationships are no different.
Under your logic, unemployed people who never apply for jobs are justified in complaining that there aren't any jobs for them.
It's funny how many women who claim to be progressive and for gender equality are the same ones who rely on traditional gender standards and expect men to do all the heavy-lifting when it comes to dating.